When I visited the Occupy Wall Street site in lower Manhattan yesterday, I felt a pull of solidarity for the protesters. I’m against corporate greed. I wish our government would tax the rich more, regulate corporations, and crack down on corruption. I agree that the bank bailout money should have gone to the people instead. A few signs, like “Remember the other 99 percent,” tugged at my heartstrings.

But ultimately, Occupy Wall Street didn’t do it for me. The lack of a clear focus, the gutter-punk aesthetic, the 24/7 commitment—it all turned me off. Meandering through the rainbow knit caps, sleeping bags, and “Tax the rich” signs, I thought of another protest that resonated with me much more: SlutWalk.


The first SlutWalk, a protest against rape and sexual double-standards, took place last April in Toronto. It was sparked by a local police officer telling a public safety class that women “should avoid dressing like sluts in order not to be victimized.” About 4,000 people showed up to a march planned for a few hundred. Since then, the protests have gone viral, spreading to more than 70 cities around the world, from Los Angeles to New Delhi to Cape Town. This Saturday, SlutWalk is coming to my hometown of New York City.

Tomorrow I’m taking the same train I did yesterday, but I’m getting off early at Union Square to join the SlutWalkers instead of the Wall Street occupiers. Here’s why:

SlutWalk’s demands are simple, Wall Street’s are fuzzy. There has been some internal debate over whether the word “slut” is worth reclaiming or whether the SlutWalk movement includes everyone. But the message is clear as a bell: There is no excuse for rape. We need to stop determining a woman’s credibility and worth based on what she wears and who she sleeps with. Period.

By nearly all accounts, the Occupy Wall Street message is muddled. “Hey President Obama, get ready for our one demand!” an Adbusters post proclaimed. Apparently the “one demand” is to abolish corporate greed—and capital punishment, and joblessness, and police brutality too. And the wars and the wealth gap and corporate censorship. Some observers have defended the movement, but many of the protesters I saw at Occupy Wall Street represented a laundry list of causes—one had “Troy Davis,” “Bush’s family,” “BP,” and “Enron,” all on the same sign, along with a “Never Forget” for good measure. I overheard people talking passionately about everything from the Second Amendment to global warming. It was dizzying.

The explanation is that Occupy Wall Street is a leaderless movement that eschews a top-down structure. I totally feel that. And I understand all these issues are interconnected. Women’s issues are, too—the SlutWalkers could have easily gone down a rabbit hole of every lady topic ever, expanding the protest to cover reproductive rights, domestic violence, and the glass ceiling. But they stayed focused on sexual assault. For the Wall Street protests to resonate to the rest of the country, there needs to be a clear ask or two.

SlutWalk is about “us,” Wall Street is about “them.” Both of these protests are about toppling existing power structures, but only one holds the entire culture accountable. SlutWalkers are demanding not only for rapists to stop raping, but for cops and the media and the average Joe and Jane to stop blaming women for their own sexual assault. The fact that the movement was spurred by a man excusing a rape, not committing one, is significant. We have a collective responsibility to alter our way of thinking.

The protesters on Wall Street aim their anger at big business but propose no solutions to the masses. Why not promote the Move Your Money Project? Why not send the message to middle America to stop voting for candidates who will sell the people out to big business? (It’d be slim pickins, but it would drive the point home.) Banks and corporations have power for a reason—it’s because we’ve let them have power. Sure, get angry at fat cats, but demanding change from the top is not enough. Identify the public’s power and leverage it.

SlutWalk is “no dress code,” Wall Street is a drum circle. For all its claims of diversity, the Wall Street protesters I saw all had a stereotypically crunchy, pseudo-anarchist style—filthy overalls, tie-dye, dreds on white people—that not only alienates the group they’re trying to change, but other progressives, too. Like it or not, image matters. Even if people identify themselves as activists, it doesn’t mean they identify with the aesthetic they’ve seen in black-and-white photos of anti-Vietnam marches. Why co-opt another era’s protest style to articulate 2011 problems? To get people to join your movement, they need to see themselves reflected in it.

SlutWalk has faced its own image problems. The protest has been criticized for pressuring women to wear Girls-Gone-Wild outfits, but the reality is that while some women stuff themselves into bustiers and stilettos, others rock sweatpants. Most wear something in between. The most chilling images I’ve seen so far are of women in a whole array of outfits holding signs that say, “This Is What I Was Wearing When I Was Raped.” As Salamishah Tillet pointed out in The Nation yesterday, SlutWalk is just as much about freedom of expression than it is about protesting sexual assault. The point is that it shouldn’t matter what you wear, you deserve to be safe.

SlutWalk is on a Saturday, Wall Street is around-the-clock. Since April, SlutWalk has maintained a constant media presence, but it doesn’t expect its protesters to be on the march all the time. It’s a single day—a single, weekend day—in each city. Full participation doesn’t require an empty schedule.

Occupy Wall Street’s “set up camp and stay there” approach is anachronistic. It may have worked at a time when the economy was good, but it isn’t feasible anymore. This movement is primarily accessible to professional activists and those who can afford not to work, which undermines the populist, mainstream message the movement purports to convey. It’s ironic that the things keeping people like me away from Wall Street are the very things the protesters decry—job scarcity, the wealth gap, rising health care and food costs. But that doesn’t make it any more likely that we’ll show up. We’re holding onto our jobs for dear life.

Occupy Wall Street’s style and vibe could evolve now that New York City unions have voted unanimously to support the movement and plan an upcoming march. But the fact remains: In order to speak to the largest number of people, a protest needs a message that is universal yet razor-sharp. It needs to hold everyone accountable, not just politicians and CEOs. It needs a public image that’s provocative but broadly appealing. And it needs to fit our lives. SlutWalk gets down to business while advocating pleasure. No wonder it’s lured thousands. It’s about to lure one more.

Photo (cc) via Flickr user pweiskel08.

An earlier version of this article stated that the author agreed that “the stimulus should have gone toward jobs programs and not bank bailouts.” It has been corrected to clarify that these are two distinct acts passed by Congress.

  • Air Force graduate tears up when friend steps in to ‘tap him out’ during graduation
    Photo credit: CanvaA lone soldier and friends celebrating.

    Sometimes the biggest moments in our lives might slip by unnoticed. That’s exactly what was happening to Airman Joel Usher. At his United States Air Force graduation ceremony, he stood alone, already knowing that no family members were coming to celebrate the occasion.

    Many people know what it feels like to hit a major milestone and wish someone were there. Usher was visibly emotional as fellow graduates reunited with cheering family members. Suddenly, a friend he made during training stepped forward. Phone in hand, recording the moment, he walked up to “tap him out.”

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    1 year ago today. it’s been a journey man still can’t believe i’ve made it this far but is only the beginning more blessing to come💫#fypシ #militarytapout #explorepage

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    A teary-eyed moment defined by friendship

    Caught completely off guard, a teary-eyed Usher smiles, turning what could have been a lonely memory into one defined by friendship. He posted the video on TikTok with a title overlay reading, “i had no one at my graduation to tap me out but that one good friend i met during training found me and come through for me…”

    At military graduations, there’s a tradition known as “tapping out.” Family members or close supporters step forward at the end of the ceremony to officially greet and escort the graduates away. According to the AF WingMoms, it can be an emotional experience, but the Air Force views its military purpose as a productive way to maintain orderly disbursement.

    An overwhelming gesture

    In an exclusive interview with People, Usher described how important that kind act was, leaving him holding back tears:

    “When my friend tapped me out, I was overwhelmed in the best way possible. It wasn’t just about finishing, it was about having someone there who truly had my back in that moment.”

    Usher went on to explain that the achievement was important, but the friendship and support shown to him are what he remembers most. After sharing the moment online, he was surprised by all the feedback. He believes the overwhelming response was a strong reminder of the beauty behind meaningful acts of kindness.

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    Best friends take a group selfie.
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    TikTok post resonates

    After 4.6 million views, people flooded the comments with emotional reactions. For some, the small gesture perfectly captured the kind of bond people form while going through difficult experiences together. This wasn’t a performative moment—just someone refusing to let another person experience an important occasion alone.

    For others, it was heartbreaking. Often, soldiers don’t have family members who are able to make the trip, or they find themselves on a solitary journey. Either way, the idea that people can accomplish something amazing and still be left to stand alone afterward can be difficult to swallow.

    Here are some of the comments:

    “i’m glad you made a good friend along the way who came looking for ya. those are the meaningful connections you make while in the military”

    “now this just broke my heart”

    “Those teary eyes”

    “This just breaks my heart! Everyone should have someone tap them out. So much respect for the military”

    “The pain in bros eyes. Went to my soul. Brother we are here for u! Ty for serving”

    “sometimes thats all we need! Just one good friend”

    “I’m so sorry no one from your bloodline was there for you in that moment but you have all of TikTok cheering you on and we are so proud of your accomplishments”

    “Ex military that tap means more than you think.”

    “i really wish they had a volunteer program for something like this… let other mamas and dads come and be there for these young men and women.. we never know how bad they just need SOMEONE to be there for them”

    “Been there my man. But you’re going to be an amazing soldier. Use that to be the best you can be”

    The mix of responses shows why meaningful moments shouldn’t be faced alone. Friendship and community are defined by simple choices: stepping in, showing up, and refusing to let a proud day also become someone’s loneliest. These small acts turn milestone accomplishments into memories carried forward with a tearful, joyful smile.

  • 59% of Americans worry about sunscreen chemicals. Only 32% understand how sunscreen works.
    Two persons applying sunscreen while sitting on a beach.

    Tiffany Miller for Melanoma Research Alliance

    Many Americans think of sunscreen at the beach. Fewer consider wearing it for the drive there. And many are questioning if they should wear sunscreen at all.

    These trends, uncovered in a new national survey from the nonprofit Melanoma Research Alliance (MRA), highlight a central challenge in skin cancer prevention.

    Skin cancer is the most common form of cancer in the United States, according to the CDC. Nine in 10 skin cancers, including melanoma, are linked to exposure to ultraviolet (UV) radiation, according to the MRA. Reducing exposure to UV radiation lowers the risk of skin cancer, making sunscreen a key part of prevention.

    A survey of 2,000 adults found that most Americans have a basic understanding of the risks of sun exposure, but that awareness doesn’t always translate into action. More than 8 in 10 recognize that spending long hours in the sun contributes to melanoma risk, yet roughly one-quarter say they rarely or never use sunscreen when spending time outdoors.

    Then there are those everyday moments that most people don’t recognize as risky. The light coming through the window over the sink. The short walk from the parking lot. The hour in the bleachers with the sun hitting one side of your face. A single sunburn can be dangerous, but it’s the accumulation of exposure over time that often drives risk.

    Sunscreen is widely recognized as an effective tool for skin cancer prevention, yet confusion and misinformation persist, especially on social media. Fifty-three percent of respondents say they have seen claims that sunscreen ingredients may be harmful. Fifty-nine percent say they are concerned about what’s in sunscreen, and 38% don’t believe sunscreen is safe and effective.

    An infographic on Melanoma Research Alliance's surveys on sunscreen facts and usage.

    Many Americans also say they aren’t sure how sunscreen works. Only about a third can correctly explain the difference between types of sunscreens, while a much larger share reports being unsure.

    Sunscreen works by absorbing or blocking UV radiation from reaching the skin, preventing DNA damage that can cause skin cancer. In the United States, the active ingredients in sunscreen undergo rigorous review by the Food and Drug Administration, which evaluates them as over-the-counter drugs. This drug-level standard requires extensive testing and contributes to a more limited set of approved UV filters compared with Europe, where sunscreens are regulated as cosmetics. The FDA is currently evaluating additional methodologies for assessing sunscreen ingredients, a process that could expand the number of approved UV filters available to U.S. consumers.

    All of this is unfolding during a period of real progress in melanoma research. While melanoma remains the deadliest form of skin cancer, more than 8,500 Americans are expected to die from it in 2026, roughly one person every hour, according to the American Cancer Society. Recent advances are improving outcomes for many patients with advanced disease, though approximately 50% of patients do not respond to current treatments, according to MRA, underscoring why prevention and early detection remain critical.

    Survey methodology: The Melanoma Research Alliance commissioned Atomik Research to conduct an online survey of 2,000 U.S. adults between March 27 and April 1, 2026. The sample is nationally representative based on gender, age, and geography. Margin of error: ±2 percentage points at a 95% confidence level. Atomik Research, part of 4media group, is a creative market research agency.

    This story was produced by Melanoma Research Alliance and reviewed and distributed by Stacker.

  • The salary you need to live comfortably in 100 US cities
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    The salary you need to live comfortably in 100 US cities

    Big-city comfort comes with a six-figure price tag.

    Jaclyn DeJohn, CFP for SmartAsset

    To truly understand the context of a household’s income, it must be compared to local costs and long-term goals, which both may fluctuate over time. For most people, the same pillars will make up the biggest nonnegotiables in their budget. These include basic necessities like housing, groceries, utilities, and transportation, and likely some discretionary spending on hobbies, activities, and other enrichment. In an attempt to secure this lifestyle for the future, many households aim to save some of their income for emergencies, investments, retirement, education, and other long-term goals. A common budgeting technique that encapsulates these three pillars is called the 50/30/20 rule: 50% of your post-tax income goes to needs, 30% to your wants, and 20% gets set aside for the future.

    With this in mind, SmartAsset assessed the salary needed to reach this 50/30/20 ideal — designated as a comfortable salary — based on the local costs in 100 of the largest U.S. cities.

    Key Findings

    • A single adult needs to earn $150,000 to live comfortably in these places. New York has the highest individual salary needed to live comfortably at $158,954. San Jose, California, follows closely at $158,080. Orange County cities Irvine, Anaheim, and Santa Ana require an estimated $151,965 in income for a single adult.
    • These cities have the lowest salary needed to live comfortably. San Antonio has the lowest salary threshold for both single adults and families of four at $83,242 and $192,608, respectively. New Orleans has the second-lowest salary needed for a single adult to live comfortably at $84,406, followed by Memphis, Tennessee, at $86,320.
    • The Bay Area is the most expensive place for a family to live comfortably. Bay Area cities make up the top four of the five places with the highest salary needed for a family of four to live comfortably. Incomes across two parents are projected at $407,597 in San Francisco, $402,771 in San Jose, and $371,488 in both Fremont and Oakland. Boston rounds out the top five at $368,742.
    • Families in these Texas cities are closest to a comfortable salary. In Frisco, the median household earns $145,444 — substantially higher than the national median of $83,730. This figure also accounts for 63.1% of the $230,464 income a family of four in Frisco needs to live comfortably. In McKinney, the $124,177 median household income accounts for 53.9% of the $230,464 needed.
    Table listing the top cities by the lowest annual salary needed for a single adult to live in sustainable comfort using the 50/30/20 budgeting rule.

    10 Cities With the Highest Salary Needed to Live Comfortably

    1. New York, New York

    • Salary needed for a single adult: $158,954
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $337,875
    • Median household income: $81,228

    2. San Jose, California

    • Salary needed for a single adult: $158,080
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $402,771
    • Median household income: $148,226

    3. (tie) Irvine, California

    • Salary needed for a single adult: $151,965
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $327,226
    • Median household income: $145,731

    3. (tie) Anaheim, California

    • Salary needed for a single adult: $151,965
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $327,226
    • Median household income: $101,145

    3. (tie) Santa Ana, California

    • Salary needed for a single adult: $151,965
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $327,226
    • Median household income: $95,118

    6. Boston, Massachusetts

    • Salary needed for a single adult: $139,776
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $368,742
    • Median household income: $97,791

    7. (tie) San Diego, California

    • Salary needed for a single adult: $136,781
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $312,915
    • Median household income: $111,032

    7. (tie) Chula Vista, California

    • Salary needed for a single adult: $136,781
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $312,915
    • Median household income: $105,101

    9. San Francisco, California

    • Salary needed for a single adult: $134,950
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $407,597
    • Median household income: $139,801

    10. (tie) Fremont, California

    • Salary needed for a single adult: $134,410
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $371,488
    • Median household income: $175,816

    10. (tie) Oakland, California

    • Salary needed for a single adult: $134,410
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $371,488
    • Median household income: $102,235

    10 Cities With the Lowest Salary Needed to Live Comfortably

    1. San Antonio, Texas
    • Salary needed for a single adult: $83,242
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $192,608
    • Median household income: $66,176
    1. New Orleans, Louisiana
    • Salary needed for a single adult: $84,406
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $197,766
    • Median household income: $58,821
    1. Memphis, Tennessee
    • Salary needed for a single adult: $86,320
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $193,939
    • Median household income: $52,679
    1. Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
    • Salary needed for a single adult: $86,861
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $213,325
    • Median household income: $70,040
    1. Baltimore, Maryland
    • Salary needed for a single adult: $87,485
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $224,224
    • Median household income: $64,778
    1. Louisville, Kentucky
    • Salary needed for a single adult: $88,234
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $212,742
    • Median household income: $67,251
    1. Tulsa, Oklahoma
    • Salary needed for a single adult: $88,317
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $215,238
    • Median household income: $60,930
    1. Winston-Salem, North Carolina
    • Salary needed for a single adult: $88,442
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $205,421
    • Median household income: $57,758
    1. Tucson, Arizona
    • Salary needed for a single adult: $88,899
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $218,400
    • Median household income: $60,483
    1. Fort Wayne, Indiana
    • Salary needed for a single adult: $88,982
    • Salary needed for a working family of four: $233,126
    • Median household income: $61,436

    Data and Methodology

    SmartAsset used MIT Living Wage Calculator data to gather the basic cost of living for an individual with no children and for two working adults with two children. Data includes the cost of necessities, including housing, food, transportation, and income taxes. It was last updated to reflect the most recent data available on Feb. 15, 2026.

    Applying these costs to the 50/30/20 budget for 100 of the largest U.S. cities, MIT’s living wage is assumed to cover needs (i.e., 50% of one’s budget). From there, the total annual wage was extrapolated for individuals and families to spend 30% of the total on wants and 20% on savings or debt payments. Median household income data for cities comes from the U.S. Census Bureau’s 1 Year American Community Survey for 2024.

    This story was produced by SmartAsset and reviewed and distributed by Stacker.

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