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This week, state legislatures in Washington and New Jersey passed same-sex marriage—but neither vote guarantees gay people the right to marry. Gay marriage opponents in Washington State, taking a cue from California’s Prop. 8 back-and-forth, have vowed to collect the signatures required to put the issue on a state ballot. Meanwhile, New Jersey governor Chris Christie has promised a veto of a similar bill, saying the issue should be put to a referendum (which, in New Jersey, only the legislature can allow). A couple of weeks ago, Christie drew flak for asserting that the civil rights movement should have been put to a referendum, saying “People would have been happy with a referendum on civil rights rather than fighting and dying in the streets of the South.”


As the political battles in New Jersey, Washington, and other states rage on, I’d like to draw your attention to the wise words of Newark, N.J. Mayor Cory Booker, who responded to Christie’s comments in the video above:

Dear God, we should not be putting civil rights issues to a popular vote to be subject to the sentiments, the passions of the day. No minority should have their rights subject to the passions and sentiments of the majority. This is a fundamental bedrock of what our nation stands for.

Christie later apologized “for offending,” but using the language of “civil rights” drove home what a referendum actually means: that if the majority of a population isn’t comfortable with ceding rights to a marginalized group, it’s fair to wait until they are. If we’d waited for that point during the civil rights movement, we might still be waiting. Buzzfeed pointed out what our country would look like if each state had decided on things like slavery and civil rights issues through a popular vote, and it’s not pretty.

It’s tempting to welcome a referendum on a civil rights issue when the public’s views are in line with your own interests—I was relieved, for instance, that Mississippi’s personhood amendment was shot down by popular vote in October. Yet the principle still stands. Unless a law affects us all equally, it shouldn’t be up to the biases of voters. And legislators’ votes shouldn’t be the last word, either. At bottom, gay marriage should be a case of “equal protection under the law”—and that’s for a court to decide, not elected representatives.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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