Ray Ricafort was bummed. He had been volunteering at Beach High, a remedial high school in Long Beach, CA, and was sure he’d been getting through to the kids. “I just had this idea that I’d come in, and it would be all good,” he says. Ricafort had shown up once a week to lead diversity exercises and conversations, show videos, and help to build a sense of community among the students. He had gotten to know a few of them pretty well, and felt like they were finally warming up to him. So last year, when he and a group of college friends established a free summer camp with the exclamatory name “Eayikes,” he was pretty disappointed when none of his Beach High School students showed up.


“Once summer came around,” says Ricafort, “and we got the venue and the insurance, they started dropping off one by one. It really hurt me, and I decided that if I’m going to do this, I better go all in”—which he did: He quit his job as tour director of the media production company Roadtrip Nation so he could work with young people full-time.

Luckily, kids from other schools and programs, brought in by Ricafort’s fellow mentors, had actually attended that first camp, which turned out to be a pretty substantial success. The first Camp Eayikes held workshops that included dance, creative writing, and cooking, activities that pulled the kids outside of their comfort zones and taught them to be part of a team. More than anything they learned how to trust and rely upon one another and cultivate a sense of self-esteem. “We just wanted to show them that you have to find the value of your own experience, the value of who you are as person, regardless of what you’ve accomplished, or feel you should have accomplished,” explains Ricafort. “Your own perspective, your individual perspective is important, is valuable.”

In the organization’s first fundraising video, footage from the program shows a group of teens dancing, skateboarding, laughing— one girl says that she just had her first conversation with a schoolmate whom she regularly sees, but has never spoken to. “A lot of butterflies in the stomach [from] being put on the spot,” says another young woman. “But everyone was all acceptance, acceptance, acceptance.”

Of course, as anyone heading up a successful organization will tell you, if you want to be taken seriously, you have to have an acronym. “We were trying to find a name,” says Ricafort, “and what we wanted these kids to be was ‘Engaged, Empowered, Exposed, Informed, Inspired, Citizens of a Community.’” But EEEIICC just didn’t roll off the tongue, and the group playfully embraced its own silly attempts to pronounce the awkward acronym, Eayikes. “ It’s funny to hear people try to pronounce it,” he says. “Say it however you want to.”

Since that first camp, Eayikes has attained non-profit status and held its second large event, an outdoor camping trip called “Wildernizzle” in Malibu Creek State Park. This time, Ricafort’s Beach High kids actually showed up.

A number of smaller follow up events have also kept the mentors and students engaged with one another. Just last month, Eayikes was one of the sponsors behind a “human library” event in Long Beach. Volunteers from marginalized or minority groups offer themselves up as “human books” that can be checked out by library patrons and asked any question a “reader” might have about their life and background. Ricafort describes an Eayikes camper and volunteer human book named Juan, whose parents are stuck back in Mexico, and who lives here in California under the DREAM act. “He lives with his grandparents and his dream is to be a soccer player,” Ricafort says. “He had a rough transition being apart from his family. That’s why he left his school and had to go to Beach High—he had to get his credits right.”

In a video for the human library event, Juan and three other young men explain the concept behind the project. They shuffle, smiling, bumping shoulders, obviously enjoying being there, but nervous about speaking to the camera. “We want you to be curious and enthusiastic,” says Juan. “This is your chance to not only learn about [the human books], but about yourselves.”

Ricafort enthusiastically characterizes Juan’s experience: “This is a super humble kid,” says Ricafort. “He had someone waiting to check him out every single day. People were taking pictures of him, holding his hand; he just loved having the chance to tell it his own way. I just remember looking at him. The kid was just shining, you know—glowing, all about it—he was just so happy. There was this validation—it was just this really amazing experience.”

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
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    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

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