This is the second post in The Back Garden Project, one GOOD community member’s effort to turn a neglected corner of the city into a thriving garden.

This is a view looking down the fire escape catwalk in my new back yard. The garden is on the north side of the three-storey building, so it doesn’t get great light. The amount of light you can see in this shot is, at this time of year at least, as much as the yard gets. I’ve begun trying to track the light’s movement across the sunnier south end of the plot at different times of day (illustration to come).


In my first few trips down to the plot I have been doing nothing but picking up trash and clearing dead brush. Every time I reach my hands into the soil to grab what looks like a small piece of metal or cloth, it ends up being just the corner of some huge piece of debris that’s half buried and half decomposed. I’ve found everything from car parts to women’s clothes.

The picture to the left is an example of the general state of things when I first climbed down there. The only difference is that I took this picture after I had already begun to collect all the random bricks and pile them up (they were all over). The metal tracks are still of mysterious origin to me at the moment, and they’re too heavy and buried to move.

In the meantime, I also made a first attempt at diagramming the garden, using some (pretty sketchy) impressions from the Google maps satellite image. Here’s take one (my plot is the green space in the middle; my building is the pink one):

Oddly shaped, eh? So it’s somewhat clear where the various obstructions to the sunlight are. The big problem is the blue building to the right, on the east side of the garden (a “pet boutique,” filled with yappy dogs). The white space immediately to the west of the garden isn’t a building, just another back patio (for the restaurant next door), so some light does get in that way in the afternoons.

Anyway, with the snow gone and the last chance of frost pretty safely past, my challenge now is getting more of the trash out to the street and actually clearing a couple patches enough to start planting. I’m going to need to find some shade-tolerant flora and harness my inner landscape designer.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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