I’m all for comfort. Over the years I’ve sampled my fair share of five-star hotels, tried an international selection of Michelin-starred restaurants, wandered through museums and galleries from the Louvre to an assortment of Guggenheims, even sat up at the sharp end on quite a few flights.This doesn’t alter the fact that it’s the “nontraditional destinations”-those edgy places that, if you paid any attention to government advisories, you’d never have stamped into your passport-I always find most interesting. Of course, when I wrote the very first Lonely Planet guidebook, 35 years ago, it focused on the world’s more unusual destinations. There are just as many of them waiting to be explored today, there are plenty of reasons they’re worth the extra effort, and, furthermore, they’re generally far less risky than the rumors, horror stories, and “don’t go there” warnings would have us believe.Take Iran, for example. I’ve spoken about the surprises of traveling in Iran to many audiences: the warm welcome, and the people who want to talk about governments, democracy, and understanding. Inevitably when I look out at the people I’m speaking to, I see heads nodding in agreement: They’ve been there as well; they’ve had the same disconcerting experience. Or Afghanistan-where, of course, there are parts of the country that are definitely very dangerous, and I wouldn’t claim that anywhere is completely safe. But what a country. Wild, tangled mountains, lost valleys, amazing ruins, a soaring minaret hidden away in the middle of nowhere, Buddhist stupas cut out of solid rock-far too solid for the Taliban to have done anything about. It’s no wonder intrepid travelers have always found the country an intriguing challenge.Or North Korea: It may be hard to find the key to the door (I arrived on an overnight train from Beijing), but as Alice found in her adventures in Wonderland, it’s a doorway worth opening. I’ve never been to a more surrealistically strange place, a country where you constantly thought you were on a movie set where wandering behind a building would reveal it was all a fake. Or try Saudi Arabia. Again, unlocking the door may be difficult-if you can’t claim you’re a Muslim en route to Mecca, that is-but once again the effort is worthwhile, particularly if you’re trying to understand the back story behind the places that dominate our media.My recent travels to misunderstood nations, undertaken as research for Bad Lands, my book about these destinations, have also brought me to Cuba, Libya, Burma, and even poor little Albania, a country that cut itself off from the rest of the world so resolutely and for so long (more than 40 years) that it has had great difficulty convincing anybody that the doors are now open again.Now I’m starting to work my way through a new list of the world’s less-expected travel destinations. I’ve recently been around Haiti, a place with fantastic naïve art and great music (“we play voodoo jazz,” the owner of Port-au-Prince’s iconic Hotel Oloffson explained before his house band’s regular Thursday night performance). After a couple of weeks spent kicking around Colombia I was delighted to note the admission by the country’s tourist office that it was a dangerous destination: They warned visitors that there was always the danger “that you might want to stay longer.”My next trip, a little walking expedition with some friends through the back lanes of Tuscany, will be First World in every way. I expect to enjoy some great meals and sample some fine wine at the end of each day’s walk. But when I get back there will still be plenty of the world’s less-expected destinations lined up on my “must do” list.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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