I am a 42-year-old husband, father of three, and police officer. For most of my adult life, I have been focused on my life’s basic tasks: raising a family and protecting and serving my community. While I considered myself well-read and socially aware, the truth is I was politically disengaged, and sat on the sidelines while our nation crumbled. Then in February of 2011, the entire paradigm of my life changed, when Wisconsin’s Governor Scott Walker announced legislation that destroyed five decades of labor peace and workers’ rights.
Governor Walker’s union-busting legislation affected thousands of public employees, but it also did something curious: It exempted police and fire unions from the provisions of the bill. Perhaps this was an attempt to divide the working people of Wisconsin. Perhaps it was a realization that this legislation would cause significant civil unrest and the governor wanted us available and willing to clean up his mess. Whatever the case, our exemption left us with two choices: sit on the sidelines while our state was torn apart, or speak out against what was happening.
Wisconsin’s police and fire unions did not sit on the sidelines. We spoke out loudly and publicly against this terrible legislation, marching through snow and sleeping on marble in solidarity with the people of Wisconsin. From these events, the Cops for Labor movement was born.
We joined a Wisconsin uprising that was remarkable in every sense of the word. Some 150,000 Wisconsinites converged on the Capitol in Madison. The protests were so remarkable in part because the people were so…ordinary. They were our neighbors, our friends, our family. They were Wisconsinites trying to preserve a way of life and sense of fairness which we had enjoyed for four decades in this state. Nurses, teachers, firefighters, police officers, steel workers, electricians, correctional officers, snow plow drivers, students, and social workers—all in one place, making their collective voice heard.
Scott Walker’s union-busting bill was signed into law on March 11, 2011. After the protests ended, Wisconsinites left the streets of Madison to return to the streets of their hometowns, where they collected enough signatures to force what was only the third gubernatorial recall election in United States history.
I wish I could say that the Wisconsin uprising yielded immediate, tangible and linear results. Unfortunately, this was not the case. Scott Walker spent a record sum of mostly out-of-state money to survive the recall election, and the results of his policies are now becoming apparent. Wisconsin is, by all objective measure, in real trouble. With a GOP-controlled executive and legislature, Wisconsin has become a combination of playground and laboratory for powerful right wing corporate think tanks peddling extreme and destructive legislation.
As a result of a crumbling middle class, Wisconsin is hemorrhaging jobs, ranking number 42 in the nation in job creation. People are fleeing the state in droves, resulting in Wisconsin’s rank in the top 10 states in emigration.
Walker has kicked thousands of poor children off of Medicaid, and has recently refused billions of dollars of federal money that would have extended health insurance to approximately 200,000 Wisconsinites. This state has seen the dismantling of environmental regulations, with foreign mining companies writing laws to rig the permit process for strip mines. To make matters worse, Wisconsin has seen gerrymandering that would make old time Chicago politicians blush, almost guaranteeing years of corporate domination of our political process.
Without question, the most offensive portion of the right wing agenda that has covered Wisconsin like a stifling burlap sack is the assault on public education. Our teachers have been thoroughly demonized and disparaged in an attempt to silence their collective voice. Wisconsin has extracted the largest educational cuts in the nation, and our schools are being deliberately starved to their breaking points. Class sizes are bursting, with one district in the southeast portion of the state forced to cram 38 children in each kindergarten class.
That isn’t educating; it’s warehousing. Wisconsin has lost teachers in droves, and educator morale is at an all-time low. While the governor is defunding public schools, money is being quietly diverted to private, underperforming charter schools and voucher programs, in all of their profit-potential glory. The Walker administration and GOP legislature are strangling the state’s public universities and trade colleges, and are now considering allowing people to buy degrees without having stepped foot in a classroom. The irony of this, from a governor who dropped out of college amid the cloud of scandal, is not lost on many of us.
Yet, as we approach the second anniversary of the Wisconsin uprising, it is impossible not to acknowledge that powerful, wonderful things are happening in this state. The uprising created a movement of new activists, many of whom—like me—had never protested anything in their lives. This movement is passionate, it is committed, and it is becoming more organized with each passing day. Wisconsin has also seen an explosion of phenomenal citizen journalism that has emerged to combat a mainstream media that is passive and dysfunctional.
Another remarkable gift to come from the Wisconsin protests is Amie Williams’ award-winning documentary film, We are Wisconsin. This film truly captures the essence of civic involvement and civic duty in our nation. It beautifully conveys the emotion and passion of the Wisconsin protests, but it also provides a testament to the power of the collective action of average citizens who are willing to do extraordinary things. At a time in our nation when money and special interests dominate our political process, this film provides a glimpse of another possible reality.
March 11, 2013 has been designated a national day of recommitment to the ideals of the Wisconsin uprising. On that date, people all over the world will gather to screen We are Wisconsin for free in their schools, libraries, union halls, theaters, and homes. Following a special Madison, Wisconsin screening, a nationally webcast town hall-style panel of activists and labor leaders will reflect on the Wisconsin uprising and the future of the Progressive movement going forward. It is my hope that our story starts a conversation for lasting change so that we may create a nation that works better for more of its citizens.
For more information on screenings in your area, or how to host your own screening, please visit www.wearewisconsinthefilm.com. On Twitter, @wearewithefilm and #31113

  • How couples divide chores may shape sexual desire in ways you wouldn’t expect
    Photo credit: CanvaPeople cleaning at home.

    As many couples aim for more equal partnerships, dividing responsibilities isn’t always straightforward. In households where both partners work full-time, figuring out how to share chores has become an important part of maintaining balance at home.

    A new study published in The Journal of Sex Research examined whether couples dividing household chores is linked to a woman’s sexual desire. The researchers found that the relationship between the division of household labor and sexual desire varies based on beliefs about gender roles.

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    A couple cleans together.
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    Household labor balanced against sexual desire

    This pattern has long been explained in narrow ways. Low sexual desire among women in long-term relationships is often treated as an individual issue: stress, relationship dissatisfaction, or hormonal changes. Instead, this study examined a broader social dynamic: how work is divided at home compared to perceptions of what that balance should look like.

    Focusing on two different survey samples, the researchers found that women generally reported lower sexual desire than men while also indicating that they perform more household labor than their male partners. Mothers who took on a greater share of household responsibilities reported the lowest levels of sexual interest.

    The study also examined the impact of benevolent sexism, which refers to beliefs that reinforce traditional gender roles, such as women as caregivers and men as providers. A couple’s attachment to these beliefs significantly influences how household labor and sexual desire are connected.

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    A woman is cleaning while her child plays.
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    Belief systems sway the balance of sexual motivation

    Women who held more egalitarian beliefs and preferred equal partnerships reported the highest levels of sexual desire when chores were split evenly. But when they found themselves doing a greater share of the household labor, they reported the lowest levels of sexual motivation.

    For women who endorsed more traditional gender roles, the pattern was different. In those cases, taking on more household responsibilities was not associated with the same decrease in sexual desire.

    Leading the research was Alexandra Liepmann, a PhD student in the Department of Psychology and Neuroscience at the University of Colorado Boulder. “Although women who endorse more traditional gender roles may not experience these costs in their sexual desire for their partner when doing more household labor, they may still experience costs in their personal and professional lives,” Liepmann told PsyPost.

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    Husband and wife are working from home.
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    Studies that connect the dots

    Adding to the evidence of this imbalance was a 2023 study focused on the distribution of household labor. It found that many relationships still adhere to unequal standards for women’s responsibilities compared to men’s.

    Another 2023 study found that women’s sexual desire tends to be more sensitive to the context of a relationship, particularly how things are going at home. This supports the idea that a woman’s perception of expected equality can affect her level of desire.

    Taken together, these findings indicate that household labor and beliefs about fairness may directly affect sexual desire for some women. Couples who divide chores more evenly may experience better intimacy outcomes regardless of their personal beliefs about gender roles and responsibilities.

  • Air Force graduate tears up when friend steps in to ‘tap him out’ during graduation
    Photo credit: CanvaA lone soldier and friends celebrating.

    Sometimes the biggest moments in our lives might slip by unnoticed. That’s exactly what was happening to Airman Joel Usher. At his United States Air Force graduation ceremony, he stood alone, already knowing that no family members were coming to celebrate the occasion.

    Many people know what it feels like to hit a major milestone and wish someone were there. Usher was visibly emotional as fellow graduates reunited with cheering family members. Suddenly, a friend he made during training stepped forward. Phone in hand, recording the moment, he walked up to “tap him out.”

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    1 year ago today. it’s been a journey man still can’t believe i’ve made it this far but is only the beginning more blessing to come💫#fypシ #militarytapout #explorepage

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    A teary-eyed moment defined by friendship

    Caught completely off guard, a teary-eyed Usher smiles, turning what could have been a lonely memory into one defined by friendship. He posted the video on TikTok with a title overlay reading, “i had no one at my graduation to tap me out but that one good friend i met during training found me and come through for me…”

    At military graduations, there’s a tradition known as “tapping out.” Family members or close supporters step forward at the end of the ceremony to officially greet and escort the graduates away. According to the AF WingMoms, it can be an emotional experience, but the Air Force views its military purpose as a productive way to maintain orderly disbursement.

    An overwhelming gesture

    In an exclusive interview with People, Usher described how important that kind act was, leaving him holding back tears:

    “When my friend tapped me out, I was overwhelmed in the best way possible. It wasn’t just about finishing, it was about having someone there who truly had my back in that moment.”

    Usher went on to explain that the achievement was important, but the friendship and support shown to him are what he remembers most. After sharing the moment online, he was surprised by all the feedback. He believes the overwhelming response was a strong reminder of the beauty behind meaningful acts of kindness.

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    Best friends take a group selfie.
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    TikTok post resonates

    After 4.6 million views, people flooded the comments with emotional reactions. For some, the small gesture perfectly captured the kind of bond people form while going through difficult experiences together. This wasn’t a performative moment—just someone refusing to let another person experience an important occasion alone.

    For others, it was heartbreaking. Often, soldiers don’t have family members who are able to make the trip, or they find themselves on a solitary journey. Either way, the idea that people can accomplish something amazing and still be left to stand alone afterward can be difficult to swallow.

    Here are some of the comments:

    “i’m glad you made a good friend along the way who came looking for ya. those are the meaningful connections you make while in the military”

    “now this just broke my heart”

    “Those teary eyes”

    “This just breaks my heart! Everyone should have someone tap them out. So much respect for the military”

    “The pain in bros eyes. Went to my soul. Brother we are here for u! Ty for serving”

    “sometimes thats all we need! Just one good friend”

    “I’m so sorry no one from your bloodline was there for you in that moment but you have all of TikTok cheering you on and we are so proud of your accomplishments”

    “Ex military that tap means more than you think.”

    “i really wish they had a volunteer program for something like this… let other mamas and dads come and be there for these young men and women.. we never know how bad they just need SOMEONE to be there for them”

    “Been there my man. But you’re going to be an amazing soldier. Use that to be the best you can be”

    The mix of responses shows why meaningful moments shouldn’t be faced alone. Friendship and community are defined by simple choices: stepping in, showing up, and refusing to let a proud day also become someone’s loneliest. These small acts turn milestone accomplishments into memories carried forward with a tearful, joyful smile.

  • 59% of Americans worry about sunscreen chemicals. Only 32% understand how sunscreen works.
    Two persons applying sunscreen while sitting on a beach.

    Tiffany Miller for Melanoma Research Alliance

    Many Americans think of sunscreen at the beach. Fewer consider wearing it for the drive there. And many are questioning if they should wear sunscreen at all.

    These trends, uncovered in a new national survey from the nonprofit Melanoma Research Alliance (MRA), highlight a central challenge in skin cancer prevention.

    Skin cancer is the most common form of cancer in the United States, according to the CDC. Nine in 10 skin cancers, including melanoma, are linked to exposure to ultraviolet (UV) radiation, according to the MRA. Reducing exposure to UV radiation lowers the risk of skin cancer, making sunscreen a key part of prevention.

    A survey of 2,000 adults found that most Americans have a basic understanding of the risks of sun exposure, but that awareness doesn’t always translate into action. More than 8 in 10 recognize that spending long hours in the sun contributes to melanoma risk, yet roughly one-quarter say they rarely or never use sunscreen when spending time outdoors.

    Then there are those everyday moments that most people don’t recognize as risky. The light coming through the window over the sink. The short walk from the parking lot. The hour in the bleachers with the sun hitting one side of your face. A single sunburn can be dangerous, but it’s the accumulation of exposure over time that often drives risk.

    Sunscreen is widely recognized as an effective tool for skin cancer prevention, yet confusion and misinformation persist, especially on social media. Fifty-three percent of respondents say they have seen claims that sunscreen ingredients may be harmful. Fifty-nine percent say they are concerned about what’s in sunscreen, and 38% don’t believe sunscreen is safe and effective.

    An infographic on Melanoma Research Alliance's surveys on sunscreen facts and usage.

    Many Americans also say they aren’t sure how sunscreen works. Only about a third can correctly explain the difference between types of sunscreens, while a much larger share reports being unsure.

    Sunscreen works by absorbing or blocking UV radiation from reaching the skin, preventing DNA damage that can cause skin cancer. In the United States, the active ingredients in sunscreen undergo rigorous review by the Food and Drug Administration, which evaluates them as over-the-counter drugs. This drug-level standard requires extensive testing and contributes to a more limited set of approved UV filters compared with Europe, where sunscreens are regulated as cosmetics. The FDA is currently evaluating additional methodologies for assessing sunscreen ingredients, a process that could expand the number of approved UV filters available to U.S. consumers.

    All of this is unfolding during a period of real progress in melanoma research. While melanoma remains the deadliest form of skin cancer, more than 8,500 Americans are expected to die from it in 2026, roughly one person every hour, according to the American Cancer Society. Recent advances are improving outcomes for many patients with advanced disease, though approximately 50% of patients do not respond to current treatments, according to MRA, underscoring why prevention and early detection remain critical.

    Survey methodology: The Melanoma Research Alliance commissioned Atomik Research to conduct an online survey of 2,000 U.S. adults between March 27 and April 1, 2026. The sample is nationally representative based on gender, age, and geography. Margin of error: ±2 percentage points at a 95% confidence level. Atomik Research, part of 4media group, is a creative market research agency.

    This story was produced by Melanoma Research Alliance and reviewed and distributed by Stacker.

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