This week in New York, 16 fellows are participating in the tenth annual Ford International Fellowship at the 92nd Street Y, which is a nonprofit management program. Since June 2001, the Ford/92Y program (underwritten by the Ford Motor Company Fund) has trained 210 humanitarian leaders from 57 countries. Participants take graduate-level nonprofit management classes at Columbia University, meet with nonprofit and business leaders, and exchange ideas and experiences. Didier Bertrand directs Acting for Women in Distressing Situations, based in Laos, which provides leadership training to ethnic minority youth at risk of sexual exploitation, be it prostitution or human trafficking. This is his first trip to New York.

As part of the Ford Fellowship, I am one of 16 fellows from eight countries selected to learn about nonprofit leadership and management. It’s a diverse group. The other participants are leaders of NGO’s in China, Egypt, Israel, India, Mali, Russia, and Thailand.

Most of us became managers with a dream and an ideal. Our ideas have come true because we believed in them with integrity and sincerity. That is how we were able to find donors to make our work possible.

We’re all here at the 92Y to learn how to become more skilled and professional in the organizations many of us run in our home countries. We are also here to learn how to better change the world for our beneficiaries.

New York wasn’t on my travel agenda—rather, I had dreams about Bhutan, Costa Rica, or Madagascar. However, this program has made me throw away all of my prejudices about this city (which I developed from far away over the last 25 years). I have found New York’s residents to be friendly, helpful, generous, and often curious about my French accent. To my surprise, the city is clean and appears to be quite safe.

We’ve visited different neighborhoods (in Brooklyn, Manhattan, and Queens), and I have found an array of diverse ethnic, cultural and religious offerings—not to mention the multi-ethnic crowds and the incredible variety of food.

The first and most wonderful experience is this group of leaders—we immediately felt like friends. There is no tension in the group, which is already cohesive and supportive.

And even though we are far from our families, we are happy to be here. This program has given us a chance to escape our projects and organizations back home; for some of us, it’s the first time in many years we have done so. In our absence, our colleagues can take on more responsibility, while the distance allows us to think about what we have done and what we still have to do in the coming years.

For me (with a background in research and social sciences) who felt so lonely the last six years while my project was getting bigger and bigger, the experience of sharing the challenges I faced with these colleagues, with a deep sense of trust, and finding that most met the same difficulties has been extremely positive—not only in “solution-finding” but also in allowing me to have more confidence in myself.

The Columbia professors are unique. Not only do they have relevant academic backgrounds, but they are all deeply involved in nonprofit organizations and public service. Their courses are extremely interactive, and they know exactly what they want to share with us, as they have experienced much of what we have experienced in our jobs.

The meetings with the New York nonprofit leaders (working at various levels, local and international) provided us with an opportunity not only to understand how civil society is involved in solving social issues that might otherwise be neglected by authorities, but also how local leaders are able to realize their dreams.

Most of us have spent so much energy on others, so to provide us with such a time to reconsider and develop ourselves as leaders and managers is wonderful.

Having effective tools to improve our organizations and projects—and to reinforce our skills to serve those in need—allows us to change the world and make it a better place for all.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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