In the experience of children, the whole world is constructed around what’s convenient for adults: Speak when you’re spoken to, you must be this tall to ride this ride and, of course, the school bell rings at 8 a.m. Typical summer camps are no exception. Children are grouped by age, assigned to a counselor, and move around a set of activities in a rotation. Is this because that is the most enriching, stimulating, rewarding experience people can possibly imagine for their kids? Or just because it’s the easiest logistically?


Back in 1980, Steve Susskind was pretty sure it was the latter. He decided that this age-old system wasn’t serving anyone, and set out to create a different kind of summer camp. This is how Steve & Kate’s Camp was born. And 33 years later, a growing number of parents and kids are finding that the differences are crucial. Instead of pre-selecting activities, campers start with a foundation of freedom to choose—literally from minute to minute—what they’re doing from an array of activities.

If they want to spend the entire day making a stop-motion animation or figuring out how to make the ultimate spaghetti sauce, no one will force them to do anything else. But with an inflatable soccer stadium, audio recording booths, a dance studio, and a rotating array of special attractions like water slides and climbing walls offered every day, most campers end up sampling a variety of experiences and even discovering new loves.

If play is the work of children, then this is a dream job for them. Campers are free to play with older or younger siblings and friends. But they also encounter a challenge that’s unique to free, self-directed play: negotiation. This might sound like a paradox in the context of freedom, but consider the social situation. If you want to play with a friend, but the friend wants to do a different activity, there’s going to be a give and take. Maybe it involves the sharing of time. Or maybe it means going your own way and meeting up later. This is an emotionally sophisticated planning function, and kids so rarely have a chance to practice it.

The camp wasn’t designed to create these social opportunities, but they emerge from the core value of giving kids free choice. The camp has seen many changes over the years, and will continue to be a work in progress. The design team is always looking for new activities and ways of presenting them. One thing that’s unquestionable, however, is the commitment to making the camp conform to kids—and not the other way around.

Image courtesy Steve and Kate’s Camp

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

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