It happens about once every two months. A dinner. A tradition. A family gathering. Circled around the table are five people who very easily could have never crossed paths in an entire lifetime, but have become essential to each other’s existence. On the surface, the relationships may seem like a stretch – a 24-year-old from East New York, a 32-year-old from Brownsville, a 27-year-old from Queens by way of Los Angeles, and a married couple fresh off giving their 19-month0old daughter a bath. But, the dynamic is perfect, happy, and real.


As the co-founder of STATE Bags, along with my wife Jacqueline, I look around the table and can’t help but think back to how this whole family came to be.

In the summer of 2008, I began working at a New York-based nonprofit organization. My job was to link up corporate teams to underfunded school systems and put together days surrounding the theme of giving back. Putting on events at what seemed like every playground and cafeteria in New York City, I became jaded and frustrated as to how spending one day in a struggling community could genuinely benefit the kids I was looking to serve. I watched countless amounts of kids latch on to the corporate volunteers, but then just hours later, these newly loved adults would disappear.

It wasn’t until a day in East Harlem where two guys jolted me into taking action of my own. Each event site had a different vibe, which most of the time was swayed by their staff. This particular event in East Harlem immediately carried a unique feel, triggered by their two site leaders. I remember stepping back while normally taking charge just to watch these two in action. For three straight hours, more than 200 kids were engaged, smiling, dancing, learning, and looking 100 percent confident in who they were.

The two site leaders – Rick and Roger – were having a blast while running the show, making sure that even if the corporate volunteers would vanish from these kid’s lives in just a few hours, they never would.

As the event came to a close, I approached an exhausted, but still energized Rick and Roger and told them that we would meet again…it was a must. The high energy duo were too good to not give them a larger platform to impact more kids the way they had in East Harlem.

While on the train back to the office, I jotted down notes of a plan to build my own movement, whose focus would be to benefit the lives of kids in at-risk neighborhoods in a more hands-on, long-form way…and doing so with Rick and Roger by my side.

One Saturday afternoon meeting in Chinatown led to another Sunday morning meeting in Queens, and things were already in motion. The makings of Camp POWER – a one-week, fully funded, overnight camp experience for kids from Brooklyn’s most impoverished neighborhoods was becoming a reality.

In 2009, myself, Jacqueline, Rick and Roger carried out the unthinkable, pulling off the inaugural season of Camp POWER in five months, sending over 80 kids from East New York, Brooklyn to Pennsylvania for the week of their lives.

The summer of 2013 marked the fifth year of Camp POWER, impacting close to 1,000 kids across Brooklyn. But for myself, Jacq, Rick, Roger and camp’s Assistant Director, David, it wasn’t enough.

The one unfortunate constant at Camp POWER was seeing kids getting on and off the bus with all their belongings in trash bags. It was clear that there was a genuine need to further serve kids in the United States, but it would be imperative to do so in a way that would have more meaning than just a material donation. And thus, STATE Bags was created.

As Jacqueline and I brainstormed product ideas and company names, we also thought about how we could revolutionize the act of the give. Giving a bag for each one sold had been done before, but finding a way to hand-deliver them to communities of need through inspirational and motivational methods would need to be the differentiator. Luckily, the site leaders from East Harlem that helped start it all (as well as a very enthusiastic, David) were already on board.

Many companies launch and then scramble to find its charitable angle. STATE Bags began with its mission central to everything we do. Rick Roger and David – the STATE PackMen who carry out the signature, high energy bag drop events – embody what the company is all about, having each successfully risen from communities where the odds were heavily stacked against them.

The STATE team would never claim that delivering a backpack to a child living in a turbulent American neighborhood instantly changes a life, but if its coupled with role model figures, positive messaging and smiles, it’s certainly a start.

In less than a year since forming, our team of PackMen has hand-delivered thousands of bags to kids across the east coast through their innovative GiveBackPack program. We take great pride in the fact that people of all backgrounds have been ignited to give back, thanks to STATE’s mission, and are absorbing the message that a STATE bag isn’t just a backpack, but a GiveBackPack.

So as the bi-monthly dinner gathering of the STATE crew convenes, it’s clear that the impact we’re making, fun we’re having and strong family we’re building is just getting started.

For more information about how STATE is taking a more local, long-form approach to the buy one, give one model, visit www.statebags.com

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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