In our A City Education series, two City Year corps members share their experiences working as tutors and mentors in schools in hopes of closing the achievement gap and ending the dropout crisis.

Eddie, a sixth grader in my after-school tutoring group, has plenty of energy, but convincing him to focus it can be a challenge. My teammate Charlotte works in Eddie’s English and math classroom. He disrupts the learning atmosphere by constantly arguing with the teacher and fighting with other students. He’s frequently kicked out of class. And of course, when he’s not in class, he’s not learning.

Charlotte saw that Eddie needed positive interactions with adults at Markham, so in February she encouraged him to join our after-school program, and he agreed. His behavior is less extreme than during school hours, but to keep him on task I have to sit directly next to him and watch him work through all his math problems. One day, we completed eight problems together—one of his biggest milestones of the year. “Go show Ms. Charlotte!” I told him, knowing she would be proud. Full of excitement, Eddie ran to find her.

Eddie’s mother tries to be as active as she can in his life, but like many of our students’ parents, she is a single mom with multiple children who works long hours to support her family. But with Charlotte’s help, she has become very involved in Eddie’s schooling.

Charlotte wrote Eddie’s mom a note describing his challenges after his first day in the after-school program. Charlotte also told his mom that she should feel free to call her any time to discuss his behavior. Later that evening, Charlotte got a call from Eddie’s mom. She wanted to know about everything that was happening in the classroom—she didn’t know the full extent of his acting up because he is well-behaved and helpful at home.

Charlotte and his mom set up a plan where Charlotte would call her every afternoon during her work break—which, coincidentally, was Charlotte’s break too. Every day, she would debrief Jesse’s mom about his behavior. When his mom wasn’t pleased, Eddie’s Xbox would disappear. Now whenever Eddie acts up in class, Charlotte tells him that they’re going to call his mom together and that he will have to tell her what he did in class today.

The relationship Charlotte built with Eddie’s mother has helped. Instead of having only one good period a week, now Eddie has one or two good days a week. And when he comes to the after-school program, he knows it’s homework time and doesn’t complain as much as he used to.

When Eddie has his good days, he knows he’s doing the right thing. Charlotte and I will never forget the day he ran up to a group of City Year corps members at lunch to show them a paper he had signed by his two teachers because he earned satisfactory and outstanding marks. All of my teammates were proud of him and excited for him to bring it home to his mom later that day.

A faculty member recently told Charlotte it’s amazing to see someone successfully work with Eddie because he is infamous at the school for being a troublemaker. Because of the trust Charlotte built with Eddie in the beginning of the year and now with his mom, he is slowly but surely becoming a better student.

Photo courtesy of City Year Los Angeles

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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