In November, the Washington, D.C. police department started a new initiative to push more officers out of their desks and onto the streets. That’s a problem for breastfeeding women on the force, who say that the new assignments have isolated them from breastfeeding equipment and private rooms and forced them into uncomfortable body armor. Now, breastfeeding women who prefer to stay in the station must use sick leave to do so. The police union has filed a grievance over the issue.


Access to private, non-bathroom breastfeeding facilities is now a requirement under federal law. But for breast-feeding cops on a beat, accessing those facilities isn’t always easy—or discreet. In the D.C. police department, officers must first notify a commander, find a street replacement, and then make it back to the station in order to pump. And the federal directive also fails to address conditions that may affect breastfeeding employees when they aren’t physically pumping milk—like when they’re forced to slip into a too-tight bulletproof vest.

Even with the federal legislation, access to breastfeeding has always been more difficult for women in certain professions. Writing for the New York Times in 2006, Jodi Kantor detailed the breastfeeding class divide for working moms:

as pressure to breast-feed increases, a two-class system is emerging for working mothers. For those with autonomy in their jobs—generally, well-paid professionals—breast-feeding, and the pumping it requires, is a matter of choice. It is usually an inconvenience, and it may be an embarrassing comedy of manners, involving leaky bottles tucked into briefcases and brown paper bags in the office refrigerator. But for lower-income mothers—including many who work in restaurants, factories, call centers and the military—pumping at work is close to impossible, causing many women to decline to breast-feed at all, and others to quit after a short time.

And it’s not only D.C. cops who have faced those barriers. After her Times piece ran, Kantor relayed the story of Erica Romero, a small-town New Mexico police officer who fed her daughter “formula during the day and breast milk during off hours” to deal with her force’s sub-par breastfeeding accommodations, and routinely squeezed into a now too-small vest just to do her job. Organizations like La Leche League International have offered up advice to breastfeeding law enforcement officers, helping them access ad-hoc solutions (like a breast pump car adapter) or systemic ones (like strategies for approaching higher-ups about the issue). In the end, though, the responsibility rests with employer. If an employee asks for an easy accommodation to help feed her kids, just give it to her.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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