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Despite prevailing narratives, consumer culture is not the core of gay identity.

There’s a comforting simplicity to the logic that governs most makeover shows.

“Queer Eye,” Netflix’s reboot of “Queer Eye for the Straight Guy,” delivers on this front. The new-gen Fab Five — a racially-diverse cast of queer men who have off-the-charts chemistry with each other — expertly helm each episode to its inevitable conclusion, tenderly guiding their subjects through a profound journey of self-improvement with the aid of a good haircut and a loaded credit card.

Like its predecessor, the new “Queer Eye” shares the message that most effective means of self-actualization is consumerism, says Yarma Velázquez Vargas, a professor of media studies at California State University at Northridge and the author of “A Queer Eye for Capitalism: The Commodification of Sexuality on U.S. Television.”

“In the original show, just as in this one, capitalism is a route to self-discovery, to creating an identity, right?” says Velázquez Vargas. “So, ‘I am a better person; I am a more fulfilled individual; I am less depressed because my apartment looks a certain way or my rug is more modern; or because I have tighter-fitting clothing because I put on some lotion.’”

No episode exemplifies the success of this formula more than “To Gay or Not Too Gay,” the fourth in the series and a masterclass in tear-jerking television. It focuses its attention on A.J., “the straightest gay guy in Atlanta,” a shy civil engineer who never had the opportunity to come out to his late father before he died. He’s in a loving relationship with another man and is finally ready to come out to his stepmother.

But A.J., we are told, is not living as “freely” as he wants to be, hewing close to an outwardly straight identity by dressing in ill-fitted clothes and refusing to cook his own food. (His refrigerator is full of almond milk, which he uses to make protein shakes that Antoni Porowski, “Queer Eye’s” foodie, says taste like chalk.)

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“This conservative guy he wants to be, this masculine life he wants to live — I think it’s more what society expects of him than what he truly feels inside,” says Tan France, “Queer Eye’s” fashion expert. “I want an outfit that represents the true A.J., who, deep down, truly wants to be the guy who’s out.”

Meanwhile, Bobby Berk, the show’s resident interior decorator, pinpoints another problem in A.J.’s life: his sparsely decorated apartment. “Just like his condo, he’s got great bones,” Berk says. “And the way I wanna show him [that] is by showing how cool his home can be — to match how cool he is.” Berk promises to give A.J. an exposed closet, which is “metaphoric,” he says, as a wink to his audience.

A.J.’s transformation from “closeted” to “out” is presented to him as a range of consumer decisions — buy this, not that; wear this, not that.

New throw pillows on his couch match the painting his father gave him. New kitchen shelving will encourage him to cook more. Now he knows how to make arepas.

Finally, toward the end of the show, A.J.’s ready to come out to his stepmother in an extremely touching scene in which he reads her a letter he wrote to his late father and introduces her to his boyfriend.

“Although there were a lot of popular makeover shows, ‘Queer Eye for the Straight Guy’ was the first show that really made a link between sexuality and forms of consumption [and] establishing that queerness is a way of consumption, an aesthetic preference, and always asexual,” says Velázquez Vargas. “Even by then, when you had ‘Will and Grace’ and you had all these gay characters [on TV], the representation was very superficial in terms of aesthetic choices [and] forms of behavior, but never a real romance was depicted or two affectionate people.”

In some ways, this is how the show differs (slightly) from the previous iteration. Here, A.J.’s relationship with his boyfriend is central to the episode’s narrative. There are coy references to sex — he has a swing hanging from his ceiling right next to his bed as well as leather harnesses in his closet.

“There is a little bit more explicit talk about sexual desire, but [only] when it comes to the person being made over, not necessarily the ‘Queer Eye’ guys themselves,” says Velázquez Vargas. While the “Queer Eye” guys frequently flirt with each other, they rarely discuss their own personal lives. And their definitions of queerness remain toggled between stereotypical notions of femininity and masculinity.

“In a way, the [show’s] representations of queerness in the show remain static,” says Velázquez Vargas. “It aligns queerness with masculinity, with the effeminate, with the traditional character of the sissy. It’s silly. It’s comical and openly flirtatious.”

The Fab Five have to remain commercially palatable to keep the door open for sponsorships and product placements, which is part of what made the first “Queer Eye” so successful in the first place.

“‘Queer Eye [for the Straight Guy]’ was a very profitable show for Bravo. In terms of production, reality TV is very inexpensive to produce,” says Velázquez Vargas. “And it included lots of product placement and lots of links between Bravo and its partner companies. For example, when General Electric bought NBC and consequently Bravo, there were a lot of product placements of GE products there. There was a lot of interconnected content in between Bravo and other programs on the network.”

Netflix’s “Queer Eye,” on the other hand, has been notably light on product placement — likely because the show is subsidized by Netflix’s subscriber base. In at least one episode, “Camp Rules,” the Fab Five take Bobby Camp, a somewhat ascetic father of six, and his family to Target for a shopping excursion.

“Stores like this, they’re designed for the Bobby Camps of the world,” Porowski says in the episode. Like much of the covertly branded advertising we experience every day, the Target mention seems innocuous at first. “The way that they frame the Target customer and what they can look for. … [T]here was a very heavy focus on how Target is aligned to the viewer’s lifestyle,” says Velázquez Vargas. “It’s a very interesting way of Netflix incorporating product placement while still remaining seemingly advertising-free.”

This particular episode ends with a heartwarming wedding day redo: Camp and his wife, Vera, didn’t have many photos of their first wedding, so the Fab Five helped them stage a reenactment.

This time, however, Camp had a clean new linen suit, some new kitchen skills, and a new life memory infused with the wonders of consumer culture.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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