Through A City Education, City Year corps members share their experiences working as tutors and mentors in schools in hopes of closing the opportunity gap and ending the dropout crisis.

Carlos is avoiding my last question. I ask him again, “What is the reciprocal of 5 over 6?” He can’t give me an answer because his mind is clearly somewhere else. I scan the area around us in the school quad and see that he is admiring the freshly painted mural behind me. I turn back to our notes and close my notebook.

Later that week, Carlos has a math test and his downfall is reciprocals. However, all Carlos wants to talk about is art, and I am not going to squander this opportunity to uncover one of his passions.


In English class, I notice one of my students is missing, even though I saw her earlier that day. I excuse myself and find Lucia crying near the girls’ bathroom. Her first boyfriend has just become her first heartbreak and I have to find a way to take her back to class. We often spend our time together dissecting the teenage romance novels she loves to read, and her life just became one. What a perfect opportunity to draw upon the experiences of her favorite protagonists to grant her the strength to return to class.

As a City Year Corps Member, I get to wear many hats throughout the day. Juggling study hall and teen angst is a challenge for my students, and my balancing act as a tutor and mentor is just as much of a struggle. City Year’s Whole School, Whole Child model means that I pay attention to more than just their strengths and weaknesses in the classroom.

A Johns Hopkins University study found that early-warning indicators can identify students at risk of dropping out of school, as early on as the sixth grade. Those A-B-C indicators are A) Poor attendance, B) unsatisfactory behavior, and C) Course failure in math or English. Equipped with this approach, I am better prepared to provide students with the specific interventions that address their individual needs. I am able to serve students like Carlos and Lucia who are more than facts and figures on a chart.

Carlos did end up conquering reciprocals and received a satisfying score on his test later that week. He also followed me after class to share some sketches he had worked on since our conversation about the new mural. As for Lucia, she made it back to class and whispered “Thank you so much” on the way to her desk. But what if I hadn’t been there in these instances? Would the things that matter most to them be written off as distractions in the classroom?

So much of the work we do with students relies on our relationships as mentors. The comfort and trust that comes with constancy is something many of the students at schools in the Los Angeles school district are lacking. Using honest conversations as ultimate motivators helps pave the way for a more cohesive transition from class, to class, and on to our after school program. Because I am able to be their mentor and tutor, I can lend them lessons that extend beyond the classroom.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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