Two new real estate books, and the stories not yet told

Three years ago, I put a down payment on a new house, and put my current house house up for sale. Never once did I think my first house would fail to sell. Not once.Today, the mindset seems loony. Unimaginable. How could I not have anticipated it? While I blissfully spent my future profits in my head, and started buying furniture for my new sweet brick cottage, I began to read newspaper reports about a downturn in the housing market. But never underestimate the power of denial. I became one of many, stuck with a house I could not sell, two mortgages and a bucketload of stress.Two new books on the real estate meltdown let me know I was not alone in my magical thinking. In Busted, Edmund Andrews, a New York Times reporter, tells the story of how he bought more house than he could afford while reporting on the housing meltdown for the paper. He understood the ins and outs of the credit swap market before the rest of us knew the word “subprime.” Still, he jumped into the fray, ruining his finances and personal life along the way. (The best commentaries on Andews’s much-commented upon, problematic book come from Megan McCardle.)


I wish I had known Alyssa Katz back in 2006, because she has been investigating the real estate market since 2004, and her new book, Our Lot: How Real Estate Came To Own Us, introduces us to more magical thinkers: the middle-class couple who decide to spend their savings on swampland in Florida (I kid you not), the handyman who started buying and flipping and made out great until he could no longer flip. Today, he is stuck with several properties worth less every day.Me? I decided the market could get no worse after my house sat for a year. So I took it off the market and rented it for another two, becoming one of the world’s least competent landlords (thank goodness nothing went wrong with the house), allowing rent to come in late, covering utilities myself, and always operating at a loss. (Turns out I’m in great company-Timothy Geithner can’t sell his house, either, and has also turned to renting.)This spring, I put the house back on the market. When the agent told me what she thought I could get for it, I blanched. All I could hope for was to break even, after I paid off my mortgage, home equity line of credit, closing costs and the credit card I used for house expenses.And that is what I got. Or hopefully will. The deal closes next week, and my fingers are not yet uncrossed. I feel nothing but remorse. After all, I could have made the same move-lowered the price drastically-three years and thousands of dollars ago.Katz and Andrews have people to blame for their real estate crises, and they do so-Katz through the hard work of intensive on-the-ground research and interviews with common folk, and Andrews through a personal tale of financial woe intercut with breezy, well-reported stories about CEOs. Andrews has it in for Greenspan. Katz blames predatory lenders, and the various administrations of the past twenty-five years who blithely encouraged every American to become a homeowner. Me? I think I should have known when to cut my losses. (Fast Company did a great infographic comparing these two books.) Which of us is most susceptible to magical thinking? Who should be the proper antagonist in our housing disaster narratives? With these books, we can begin to sort through the line-up.There are many real estate stories yet to be told-while reading Our Lot, I kept wondering why I had not read these stories already, why there has not been more feature reporting on the people caught in the crisis. We get foreclosure and house price figures every month, but not enough about the stories behind the numbers. Why? Have journalists been too absorbed by the election and foreign policy to find these stories? Too overwhelmed by increasing editorial demands and fears about losing their jobs (or, like Andrews and Katz, who fought a New York co-op battle while writing her book, too distracted by fears of losing their own houses)? Or are many reluctant to tell their stories, because, like me, they feel a teensy bit of shame?Katz’s important book introduces us to people still reeling financially. We close Andrews’s tale with him on the precipice of foreclosure and bankruptcy (also, we end his story convinced he should have known better, not only about housing but also about divorce and remarriage…). Still, we lack endings. We need to tell more stories about the beginnings and the middles of our housing sagas, to help us answer question lingering yet, the one stories prompt us to ask: What happens next?

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

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    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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