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This won’t be the first time you’ve heard that our conventional wisdom around child development and education needs a makeover. It might, however, be the first time you’ve considered the idea of a “character report card” being rolled out in schools.




Author and New York Times Magazine editor Paul Tough recently visited Los Angeles, and in this series of short talks, he explains some pretty profound findings by psychologists, economists, and neuroscientists—all of them related to the link between childhood stress and adult success.

Some schools Tough studies—one is a charter school serving mostly low-income students and another is a private school where one year of tuition is roughly $42,000 a year—are working to change this with character report cards. They’re basing this on the idea that the sum of seven qualities are a better indicator of success than any other measurement tool we’ve used in the past. 

What neuroscientists call “executive function”—or what educators and the rest of us call “character”—is said to be just as important as a child’s IQ (maybe even more important).



In his reporting, Tough reveals a formula for predicting the extent to which a child will be successful later in life: 

Optimism + Zest + Curiosity + Social Intelligence + Gratitude + Self-Control + Grit = Adult Success.

 Too much childhood stress has a lifetime impact on later-in-life outcomes (check out what one pediatrician Tough interviews in Bayview Hunters Point has to say about this). 

Some stress is good for kids, but too much wreaks havoc. While a little stress gives us an opportunity to practice failing, significant amounts of trauma in childhood amount to cancer, heart disease, and emphysema rates twice as high as normal, and suicide rates 12 times as high.

If we want to intervene and manage any existing trauma that will inhibit a child’s adult success, there are two key periods in which we must act. One is in early childhood, when a child’s brain is plastic. The other is in adolescence, when metacognition (or “thinking about thinking”) kicks in and adolescents are able to reflect deeply on their own thought processes. 


During adolescence, character report cards make success attainable for all kids—not just the super-smart ones.

The reports send a signal that through developing kids’ resilience, they aren’t stuck being any way they don’t want to be (“You don’t have to remain the slow kid,” for instance). They create a sense of personal agency, and moreover, transplant focus from tweens needing to improve intelligence to their working harder on character development (and that true smartness can be a byproduct of their character). 

Even the things we typically consider innate can be worked on and changed.

At the end of the day, working on character development in childhood, along with helping manage instances of extreme adverse experiences, can mean the difference between adult success and failure. Now, just consider the implications for you, your current life, and what it could mean for the community in which you live.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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