As part of a project at Design for Social Innovation in SVA, we were asked to “map our neighborhood’s wellbeing.” I have lived in New Brunswick, NJ, for the past year and, even though I have spent a fair amount of time at home, I realized I didn’t know much about my neighborhood’s wellbeing. First, what defines the wellbeing of a neighborhood? Is it access to health and education, or affordability, or relationships between people—or is it just happiness of people living there?

I began to think about how I could research effectively. Counting the number of hospitals and schools nearby? Interviewing people? Photographing them. Or just observing? The culture of my neighborhood is very “non interfering” and I wanted to find a way that would give gave my neighbors a choice to answer or not to answer. Inspired from Candy Chang’s “Before I Die” project, I put up posters that said “I have…” and “I wish I had…” to understand what they are thankful for and what they dream of having.


Soon after the posters were put up, I started getting some interesting responses. There were some that made me laugh and others that were heartwarming (“I wish I had a million dollars to give to my parents so that they don’t have to work anymore”). But more importantly, each one actually narrated a story in itself.

Every morning, when I would go to check the responses, I would get smiles from neighbors and people who realized I was the one behind this silly little game in the apartment building. Without words or direct interaction, I received so much information about my neighborhood—and all in only two days.

The next part was actually converting this wide set of data into a map that pointed towards the wellbeing of my neighborhood. After a lot of contemplation, I categorized and mapped this information that gave some very fascinating insights.

Adding up the numbers, a few things stood out.

  • The majority of people care about love, peace, and happiness
  • Even though so much of money is spent on healthcare and religion, the fewest number of people mentioned these in my survey
  • A large number of people wished for more love and an even larger number acknowledged the love they already have (signifying that people are happy with the love they have but want more?)
  • On money & career, many people wished for more and very few expressed their satisfaction for what they already have

In retrospect, it was an exciting and surprising experience to get responses from an otherwise “no interaction” neighborhood. It was intriguing to note that two basic questions can result in getting rich data about people’s gratitude and dreams. And it was fascinating to realize that behind every physical arrangement—in this case, a neighborhood—there is an invisible structure of people’s relationships and experiences, all contributing to the environment of the place. Ultimately, it is people that make neighborhoods—and the world.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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