Only two percent of all Boy Scouts achieve the rank of Eagle Scout. It’s a lot of work: you can only earn an Eagle Scout medal and badge after some twenty other merit badges and an ambitious community service project. Those who collect these silver eagles dangling from a red, white, and blue ribbon enjoy advantages, both spoken and unspoken: college scholarships or perhaps a resume that rises to the top of the pile. This year marks the 100th anniversary of the treasured prize, but there’s a movement afoot to send them back to Boy Scouts HQ in protest.

Last Thursday, Martin Cizmar of Williamette, Oregon penned a letter to the Scout bosses in Irving Texas to voice his vehement opposition to their policy banning gay scouts and scout leaders. The Scouts early last week had officially reaffirmed their position after “a confidential two year review,” a position that has remained controversial since the U.S. Supreme Court had upheld it in 2000. Cizmar’s letter pinballed around social media, where I read it. It says, in part:


I am not gay. However, I cannot in good conscience hold this badge as long as BSA continues a policy of bigotry. Though I didn’t know it at the time, I was acquainted with a number of gay scouts and scouters. They were all great men, loyal to the scout oath and motto and helpful to the movement. There is no fair reason why they should not be allowed to participate in scouting. I suspect you know this too.

I don’t want to be an eagle scout if a young man who is gay can’t be one too. Gentlemen, please do the right thing.

Cizmar’s simple act of defiance lit a fire under several other Eagle Scouts and now the medals are beginning to pile up down there in Irving, Texas. There’s Christopher Baker: “It is a stain on the otherwise exceptional reputation of the Boy Scouts of America. You and the current leadership at the national level should ‘be prepared’ for significant fall-out from this decision.” There’s Leo A.P. Giannini: “I don’t want to have my son or daughter one day say to me, ‘Did you know you were a member when the Boy Scouts used to not allow gay people to join?’” There’s Peter Straub and Rob Tornoe and Matthew Hitchens, and the list is growing.

The Scouts’ marketing logo is “Prepared for Life.” Really? How does fostering a peer group without a diversity of sexual orientations prepare young men for life? The Girl Scouts of America have given up their homophobic ways, but the Boy Scouts of America are swiftly becoming out of step with broad cultural shifts and its own elite may very well lead the charge to end the bigotry. It’s time for you high profile Eagle Scouts to start sending your medals back too. Stephen Spielberg, we’re looking at you. When you’re ready, here’s the address.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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