Each year it seems we’re being hit by the holiday hype earlier and earlier. Though it’s pleasing to see how many people have embraced #GivingTuesday, we will continue to be bombarded with messages to buy, buy, buy right up until December 24.


In the past I’ve found myself stressed out, and even angry, about the commercialism of Christmas. Until I realized I was giving into the hype.

I don’t have to buy everyone the perfect gift. My kids forget about 90 percent of what they receive on Christmas morning approximately five minutes after opening the presents. And so do the adults in my family, for that matter.

Do you know what they remember? The thoughtful gifts with a story behind them. The Christmas tree ornament with recycled oxygen cylinders recovered from Mount Everest. The handmade scarves at the nonprofit around the corner from my house.

This year, I’m making it a point to shop more thoughtfully. Here are five simple ways I’m shopping with a conscience this holiday season.

1. Shopping Local

I am fortunate to live in a vibrant downtown community in Maine where local shopkeepers offer everything from handmade goods from local artisans to hard to find vinyl records. In one quick walk I can find well-made toys (that aren’t plastic), delicious local food items (Maine maple syrup and microbrews are especially popular), handmade ornaments and scarves, art supplies, unique antiques, trendy clothes, jewelry, music and more.

2. Buying Fair Trade

Whether it’s delectable coffee or unique handmade jewelry, fair trade products support farmers and craftspeople in developing countries with fair working conditions and opportunities to offer their goods to an international audience. I personally support fair trade companies like Jolica, 1000 Shillings and INDIGENOUS because their products are gorgeous, and you learn more about whom you are supporting with each purchase.

3. Considering the Gift’s Carbon Footprint

Sometimes the big box stores are the most convenient option, especially at the last minute. ClimateCounts.org allows anyone to study up on the world’s largest companies’ impact on global climate. You can research things like carbon emissions and how transparent companies are about addressing climate concerns. Surprisingly, some of the companies I thought had bad reputations were making good strides while others made me think twice about purchasing their products.

4. Looking for Gifts That Give Back

In addition to fair trade, there are many other options for gifts that give back. Up to 50 percent of profits made from sales of (RED) products go to fight AIDS in Africa, for example. Save the Children gives you the option to adopt animals for families in developing nations so they can generate income. UncommonGoods supports talented makers all around the world while also donating to a chosen charity on behalf of the buyer. I’ve got my eye on this kidrobot.

5. Giving the Gift of Experiences

Some people can barely make their bill payments each month, so why should we put ourselves in further debt? A recent Huffington Post article suggests giving the gift of experiences such as quality time with a loved one. As a mom, I can attest to the fact that my kids really don’t need more “stuff.” I owe it to my family to turn off my devices and spend quality time with them. My kids will talk about the special road trip to Mom and Dad’s alma mater to see a big time college basketball game for years, but they’ll forget about a cheap toy in a couple of weeks.

How will you shop with a conscience this holiday season?

Image via Flickr user Alaina Marie

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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