Ever since I can remember I have been drawing painting, sewing. My dream was to become a fashion designer. However, at the age of 13, I was in a car accident while on a family vacation in Mexico. I injured my spinal cord and was paralyzed from the chest down. I thought my dreams would be impossible from that moment forward.


However, with the support of many people, I relearned to draw, paint, and eventually sew. I went to college for fashion design and theater arts, traveled to Paris for a design competition, and England for performance programs, and became a costume designer.

Along the way, I met others with spinal cord injuries and having these people in my life made a difference in my confidence level and happiness. It was great to have others who understood exactly what things were like for me. I created the nonprofit BACKBONES to provide that peer support that many with spinal chord injuries lack. In addition to giving people the opportunity to connect with others on a one-to-one basis over the phone, in person, or via web, BACKBONES also hosts many events and awareness campaigns nationwide.

As I have learned to marry my skills in art, theater, and social good, BACKBONES has become about storytelling—for those with SCI to connect as humans, for knowledge, conversation, and understanding.

I once searched on Google to find images of “disability” and “wheelchairs”. I was hoping to see something real, but the image results showed two results: PITIFUL/ILL/HOPELESS or INSPIRATIONAL/SUPERHUMAN images. Contrary to popular belief, people with disabilities can also live happy and successful lives, are active members of their communities, and make important contributions to society. So, through BACKBONES I decided to use positive photographs to tell stories that will challenge current perceptions of SCI and begin to break down multiple barriers for those with disabilities.

We picked 22 photographers and matched them with 22 individuals with SCI across the country. They are currently working to create photo essays that focus on the accomplishments of people after spinal cord injury and paralysis. It will exhibit in Chicago at the National Museum of Health and Medicine Chicago on June 29, 2013; in Portland at MercyCorps in the Fall of 2013; Los Angeles (TBD); New York (TBD); and beyond as more funding comes available.

In order to reach as many people as possible with our efforts, BACKBONES partners with organizations serving those with SCI, as well as those just doing good. We believe in collaboration and community with all our neighbors around the globe. So, to celebrate community we will participate in Neighborday with the 5th annual BACKBONES 5K Run, Walk n Roll. The funds we raise on this day will allow us to continue to host events in different cities and engage their communities with others across the nation.

BACKBONES events have always had an education and awareness component to them, whether it’s a fashion show with models in wheelchairs, a scavenger hunt where non-wheelchair-users must complete activities from a wheelchair, or a 5K with extra handcycles for the able-bodied participants to try out. We aim to remove the fear and stigma behind the “wheelchair” and disassociate it with the words “limitation”,“weakness” and “pity”. We need to instead replace those words with “independence”, “freedom” and “ability”—because that is what a wheelchair is for a person with a disability—FREEDOM to be independent and able.

These projects and more to come will challenge current stereotypes of the lives of people with spinal cord injuries (SCI) change views leading to better access to housing, employment, education and recreation for people with disabilities. If you want to be a part of what we’re doing, join our Razoo campaign and check us out at BACKBONESONLINE.com.

This project was featured in GOOD’s Saturday series Push for Good—our guide to crowdfunding creative progress.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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