Across the country, colleges and universities are beginning to open their on-campus quarters to co-ed roommates. Meanwhile, the Catholic University of America is taking steps to further segregate the genders. “I know it’s countercultural,” university president John Garvey wrote in the Wall Street Journal last month on his decision to make each of the school’s residence halls single-sex. Garvey called it a “slightly old-fashioned remedy that will improve the practice of virtue.”


Garvey cites a few studies suggesting that students who live in co-ed dorms are lacking in Catholic bonafides—they’re more likely to engage in “risky behaviors” like binge drinking and having sex, activities Garvey says lead to “physical and sexual assault” and are “destructive to love and marriage.” Catholic higher education watchdog group the Cardinal Newman Society “cheered” the school’s renewed dedication to Catholic values.

Then again, Catholic U. had already sex-segregated all of its dorms by wing, floor, or building. And yet, students who attend Catholic-identified colleges are more likely to have sex than those who attend secular and Protestant schools. So perhaps a student’s proximity to potential sexual partners is not the sole factor at play here.

In fact, when I surveyed the sexual activity at Catholic U. in 2009, the university’s attempts to clamp down on relations—it bans all premarital sex, masturbation included—only made students’ “risky behavior” riskier. College students at every school are going to find a way to hook up; at Catholic, they were just forced to sneak behind the backs of the school administration and the residence assistants tasked with keeping them safe. Catholic University students had limited access to condoms and birth control and were less comfortable approaching authority figures over sex-related problems.

In the spring of 2008, one freshman student really needed help: She claimed that a group of freshman boys raped her when she was too drunk to consent. In an on-campus dorm. On a male-only floor. With the door open. Several students passed by and witnessed the scene.

The boys claimed the sex was consensual. But at Catholic, the line between consensual sex and rape was blurred beyond recognition: Both were sins against God, and very much against the rules. In 2008, CUA defined “Sexual Misconduct” as “physical contact of a sexual nature that is unwanted by either party and/or that is disruptive to the university community.” On a campus where masturbation and gang rape are outlawed in the same line, the process of preventing and reporting truly damaging sexual behavior becomes a lot more complicated. The girl sued the university, claiming that it failed to investigate and adjudicate the case in a timely matter. The case was settled out of court.

The Catholic University of America later refined its student code of conduct to clarify that it views sexual assault as a more serious problem than it does consensual sex. Adopting that more nuanced version of Catholic virtue was a step in the right direction. But this new plan to physically separate the girls from boys? That will only complicate the school’s efforts distinguish between healthy relationships between men and women, and criminal ones.

Across the country, though, conservative Catholic commentators are hailing the rule as a new model for Catholic education. One homeschooling advocate wrote in to say that her daughter “was exposed to constant drinking, partying and was date-raped” at one Catholic institution. “It messed her up so badly that she tried to take her own life, and the college didn’t even notify us,” the mother wrote. Somehow, though, an institution that ignores the rape and suicide of its students isn’t the problem; girls living too close to boys is to blame. Wrote the mother: “I applaud Pres. Garvey’s courage in changing the policy.”

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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