One of the most rewarding experiences since Boba Guys started up has been being able to share a bit of our culture with our customers. After a week of Linsanity, we have had several people ask us about Jeremy Lin, the New York Knicks basketball star of Taiwanese descent who is breaking down stereotypes about Asian Americans. It is hard to suppress our excitement about someone who is blazing a trail for individuals like us.

The Linsanity phenomenon shows that people like being pleasantly surprised, either by an underdog story or someone unexpectedly breaking barriers. The questions Boba Guys’ customers ask us show there’s more than one way to change people’s perceptions of another culture.


One of our values is accessibility. Many people are still learning what bubble tea is, and tapioca pearls are often foreign to the American palate. We’ve heard a lot of people say, “It’s… interesting. I like the milk tea, but I never had to chew my drink before.” We take these comments in stride. Americans did not always love sushi or coconut water, nor are those delectable imports, like bubble tea, for everyone. That people are trying something new is already rewarding enough.

We believe food is the door into other cultures; we usually find insight into a different way of life by experiencing their food. What is the dominant taste: sweet, sour, or savory? Are the dishes typically served hot or cold? Are dishes meant to eaten individually or communally? These answers give us a glimpse into the cuisine’s place and people of origin.

Boba Guys, to our surprise, became a small platform for this kind of conversation. We often see people explaining what boba is to their friends and offering to pay for their drinks, or meet customers who tell us about their recent trip to China or Taiwan.

We work extremely hard to make Boba Guys accessible and inviting, but the level of candor is pleasantly refreshing. Our favorite examples are when people ask us about the relationship between Taiwan and China. It usually goes like this:

Customer #1: I know this may be touchy, but can you explain what the difference is between Taiwan and China?

Friend of Customer #1: No, don’t ask them that. Don’t talk about politics.

Customer #1: I know, but I don’t get why my Taiwanese friends always correct me when I say they are Chinese. They never explain.

Growing up in traditional Taiwanese and Chinese families, we had to reconcile the relationship as well, so we understand where the question is coming from. We are very grateful that people would look to us—a boba shop—to answer such tough questions. People don’t expect us to give a History Channel explanation, but are nonetheless excited when we explain the tension in everyday terms. Andrew often explains it like a corporate merger or marriage gone sour.

However, few of our conversations ever get so heavy. Most of the time, we address simpler topics like explaining how tapioca is made or the difference between Hong Kong milk tea and Taiwanese style milk tea (Hong Kong-style uses a different type of milk). And sometimes, it happens the other way around. When we introduced our horchata boba, we explained what horchata was to Asian Americans unfamiliar with the popular Latin American drink made with rice milk.

As we continue to improve our business, we hope people talk about Boba Guys the same way they talk about Lin—with interest, curiosity and hopefully some affection. We want to continue to engage with our customers and share our culture with them. And just maybe, we can change the way people see boba milk tea.

The Boba Guys share their adventures in food enterprise every Monday.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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