Before I left for an assignment in Shenzhen last year, my friend Nicholas, who grew up in that city, offered a primer on journalism in China. “Why do you want to tell people you are a journalist?” he wondered. “You can go, you can talk to anybody you want. If you’re not taking cameras everywhere, I don’t think there’s a problem.” As for the whole Tiananmen Square debacle: “This is very sensitive, no one wants to talk about it. In public, no, but in private you can. You can talk about anything in private but not in public.”Today is the 20th Anniversary of the Tiananmen massacre. On June 4, 1989, the Chinese Communist Party ended two months of protest. They sent army tanks into a crowd of student activists, labor leaders and average citizens, crushing the idealism of a generation. To date, there has been no reckoning; the government has yet to even acknowledge the massacre occurred.Looking back on my Shenzhen trip now, it’s obvious that, 20 years after Tiananmen, many of China’s young people have inherited a Faustian bargain. There are those who accept a repressive dictatorship in exchange for economic growth and upward mobility-don’t rock the boat, and you can succeed. To others, the memory of Tiananmen is an example of a totalitarianism they steadfastly resist.These opposites were evidenced the day I was shown around Shenzhen by a woman named Echo, a cherubic 29-year-old who runs the volunteer group Shenzhen Greeter. Because her city is so frequently derided as a money-obsessed cultural desert, Yang adapted the Chicago Greeter model, where locals volunteer to show out-of-towners around, to help share her vision of the city. At the time, she worked in procurement at Lenovo, the Hong Kong-based company that acquired IBM’s laptop division. Also with us that day was Alex, my fixer and a self-appointed Beijing skeptic. “The Communist Party are bullies,” he has told me on more than one occasion.It was a typically mild February day in South China and Echo was guiding Alex and me through the Shenzhen High-Tech Industrial Park. We poked our heads into a cafeteria, where Shenzhen’s emerging middle class lined up for lunch. Then we languidly wandered the campus of Shenzhen Virtual University Park, where the centerpiece is a large modern glass building. Leading institutions like Peking University and Hong Kong Polytechnic have established outposts here to recruit emerging technocrats.”The bastard child of Beijing and Hong Kong,” Alex quipped under his breath. Echo didn’t hear him.Lenovo and foreign giants like Philips, Compaq, Olympus, and Epson are some of the firms that have contributed to this booming area, but that day Echo was more excited about local firms, which, she said, were leading the transformation of Shenzhen’s economy. She pointed out ZTE, which she described as a telecom company that’s “big in emerging markets.””The owner is the son of the General Wang of Xinjiang, who smashed the Uyghurs,” Alex said archly. “You say the name in front of the Uyghurs, the baby will cry.” He smiled mischievously.A sheepish expression creased Echo’s face. “Actually, in public, we don’t say that,” she said.Alex then pointed across the street at Huawei, a telecom company. “That is also owned by the Party,” he said, clearly on a roll.”I don’t say that,” Echo said.The encounter seemed to perfectly encapsulate the double consciousness of China’s young people. There are newfangled malls, glimmering office towers, and super-bookstores quadruple the size of a Barnes & Noble. From the outside, it looks like a modern Metropolis, not entirely different from Hong Kong, the hyper-capitalist city-state across the Shenzhen River on which it’s modeled.But when one looks closer, that perception crumbles. At Starbucks Shenzhen, customers chose from the usual selection of lattes, but the only English newspaper is the state-run China Daily. Even though Hong Kong is just five miles away, the internet at Starbucks-or anywhere else in Shenzhen-blocks access to the South China Morning Post or any other independent press.I thought about that trade-off a lot today. On most days, China’s upwardly mobile young people lead vastly improved lives, in spite of their state-run media’s blackout of unfavorable coverage. But today, as human rights advocates around the world marked the anniversary, authorities in Beijing censored the Internet more than usual and blocked access to Tiananmen Square. It was if it never happened.Image via

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
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    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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