The first play Phil Williams ever saw was a production of Les Miserables. He was about four years old when he now remembers thinking to himself, “What is this craziness?”


Phil’s father, George, had been a classically trained Shakespearean actor working off- and off-off Broadway, apprenticing at the London Academy for Music and Dramatic Arts (LAMDA) and acting in the Boston Shakespeare Company. When Phil’s younger sister was born, their father had to quit acting to focus on raising his family, settling in Queens where he got a job at a wine and spirits shop.

So when Phil started college in 2008, the year the U.S. housing bubble burst, the stakes were higher than anticipated: Would he pursue a career in the arts or choose a more financially-prudent path?

“My parents made it very clear that I needed to get a degree no matter what,” Phil says. Wanting to stay close to New York City, like many others of his generation, he decided that the most feasible option was to live at home with his family.

The repercussions of his decision became weightier in 2009, when George had a brush with cancer, about which Phil says, “By the grace of God, it was nothing more than a little brush. He was able to get through it, but his job at the time kind of decided they didn’t need him anymore.” As a result, George started working at a Nordstrom department store in Garden City, New York, with his wife and Phil’s mother, Willy.

In the midst of all of the financial uncertainty, Phil made a counter-intuitive, but courageous choice: He switched his college major to theater. Juggling school with work at a few retail stores, he did whatever he could to pursue the path he had learned to love. He was animated by a certain drive that came from living at home with parents working hard to keep their son, and soon their younger daughter, both in college, while also keeping food on the table.

“They just put us first and never let us waiver,” says Phil. “How hard they worked, I felt like we’d have to match that.”

In 2012 Phil graduated from York College at the City University of New York State, around the time his retail jobs dried up. He was unemployed. His father became adamant that Phil not give in and let a day job get in the way of his craft. George stressed the reality of struggle innate to a career in the arts and encouraged artistic discipline while creating an environment in which Phil could remain at home, contribute financially when he could, but gear himself predominantly toward chasing his dream.

Today, Phil is an actor, director, and founder and artistic director of the Minefield Theatre Group and George is the executive producer for Phil’s most recent production, Release the Kraken (aka The RACHET Play).

“It’s weird, but I kind of feel like I’ve come full circle,” says George.

Twenty years ago, George gave up acting to put the dreams of his children ahead of his own, which makes his work with Phil that much sweeter.

“A new dream has emerged,” says Phil. “My father wants me to genuinely succeed and wants me to genuinely change the world.”

It seems that dreams can be a family affair.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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