The alarm goes off. My husband and I get our daughter ready for the school carpool, then make our own commute. Like many of our neighbors, it’s a short walk to a shop or office in the village, or (in our case) an even shorter walk to the office above our garage. After school, our daughter has the freedom to roam ample sidewalks and trails, visiting friends and exploring nature. While she is out, my husband and I prepare dinner using herbs and vegetables from our patio garden and local meats and dairy purchased at the neighborhood independent grocer. An after-dinner stroll with the dog, when the weather is nice, often leads to friendly visits with neighbors doing the same.


It may sound utopian, but it’s how my family lives. As an urban designer, I’m well aware that our healthy environment is awfully rare. I’m grateful for the many healthful benefits of our chosen lifestyle, and for the choices by those who planned our neighborhood to be a community supportive of the physical, social, and emotional health of its residents.

After moving to our neighborhood outside a small southern town named Beaufort, I felt a growing desire to become more personally invested in the health of my newly-adopted community. I wasn’t sure where to begin, so when a few neighbors began talking about starting a new school focusing on the healthy development of the whole child, I quickly threw myself into the cause. I had no background in educational start-ups, and neither did my fellow founders. We were all young parents with varied professional backgrounds who simply wanted more from the available public education options, and we were committed to giving the time and effort needed to create an alternative in our community.

In the process of creating this new charter school, I learned valuable lessons about community that stretched far beyond my previous experience as an urban designer.

  • Nothing connects fellow citizens faster than simply working together towards a shared goal.
  • There is immeasurable value in planning for the future of your initiative, even as you struggle to keep the momentum going in the present.
  • Community leadership can take many forms and come from surprising sources.
  • The healthiest communities are those where citizens are doing what they can with what they have and where they are.
  • It is difficult to create meaningful community change without the help of a supportive network.

Now in its fifth year of operation, the dream for Riverview Charter School has become a successful reality, and my own daughter is a happily thriving second grader there.

This is where you come in. I strongly believe that every citizen can create the change they desire for their community, whether that change is to start a school, open a community garden, create a bicycle co-op, or renovate a neighborhood park. I also know that it’s not an easy thing to do without technical support. That’s why I started The Civic Hub, a social capital incubation firm. We work with individuals, groups, organizations, and municipalities anywhere in the U.S. to help cultivate community change.

We are committed to helping everyday citizens in towns and neighborhoods, people living in places at a scale where the health of their community is accessible and the changes they can make will be meaningful.

There is plenty of data suggesting that an unhealthy environment can have a profoundly negative impact on our personal health, and as a result, health experts have begun to study preventions far beyond the prescription pad. Place-based health is a fast-growing area of policy interest, fueled by a rising awareness that environment may be the greatest factor in our national health crisis. Still, many people cannot simply or easily pick up and move to a healthier community. What is more, the factors that tie families to unhealthy environments frequently fall along demographic lines, disproportionately harming those with the least options available. Even in families with options, knowing where to begin and having the tools to do so can feel overwhelming.

At The Civic Hub, we want to help. We are launching a tutorial series on our website called “How?” Tell us what you would like to know how to do, and we’ll develop a tutorial that can help you and folks just like you create the healthy community you desire. Chances are if you are facing a know-how challenge, there are likely others out there that are as well. We want to hear about your lifestyle and how you would like to change it, for your family and for the benefit of your entire community. It starts simply with this question: What would you do for your community if you knew where to begin?

Drop us a note through our website; we’re excited to learn about the place you love.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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