Yalonda Green—who has a PhD in humanities, cultural studies, and poetry—first stumbled upon her adult love of coloring while working as a children’s library assistant at the Louisville Free Public Library in Kentucky. “When the kids were doing the coloring pages, I would sit and do them too. I noticed that when I colored with them, I felt relaxed and at peace. Eventually, I went to the dollar store, bought some colored pencils and coloring books. I started coloring at home and sharing my coloring on Facebook,” says Green.


Green didn’t stop her sharing there. These days, she offers pages from coloring books along with colored pencils to adult library visitors as a form of stress relief. “We have a large unemployed population in this community. Often times, people come here stressed out and worried. At least a few times a week, I have to remind someone to breathe,” she says. The soothing activity has proven to be so popular that Green is launching a library program this August focused on sketching, drawing, and coloring, aimed at encouraging fellow grown-ups to express creativity and confidence in their choices, whether on the page or in other more traditionally “adult” aspects of their lives, like job interviews or romantic relationships.

The Detroit native and the adults she works with are especially fond of the mandalas featured in the works of illustrator Johanna Basford, whose adult-oriented Secret Garden: An Inky Treasure Hunt and Coloring Book topped Amazon’s bestsellers list last month. Her second coloring book for grown-ups, Enchanted Forest: An Inky Quest and Coloring Book, was No. 2—selling out of its first run of 226,000 copies in just a few weeks. Between just those two books, Basford’s coloring books for grown-ups have sold nearly 1.7 million copies worldwide. And they’re far from the only adult coloring books to appear in the top 10.

So what’s with the regressive behavior? There’s a lot of speculation out there about adults like Green who are between the ages of 25 and 34. She and her millennial cohorts are better educated than previous generations—which has left many of them with “astronomical” student loan debt. 49 percent of 2014 graduates describe themselves as underemployed, which means they’re without a job, or at least without a job requiring their bachelor’s, master’s, or doctorate degrees. Underemployment might be why 15 percent of millennials currently live with their parents. Or maybe they’re moving back home because 68 percent of them have never married, compared to 32 percent of their grandparents at the same age.

Psychologists (and parents forced to forget, at least temporarily, about the challenges and pleasures of the empty nest) have referred to this recent tendency toward extended adolescence as a new stage of life: emerging adulthood. But maybe emerging adulthood isn’t something that’s been thrust upon today’s young adults. Instead, our newest grown-ups are making deliberate choices. According to Pew, 24 percent of millennials may not be married, but they’re co-habitating with a romantic partner. When it comes to jobs, emerging adults are forging their own path—the Freelancers Union notes that since 2007, they’ve seen a 3,000 percent increase in members under 35, shedding traditional office life for the riskier—though potentially more rewarding, in terms of both work-life balance and dollars earned—terrain of freelance. And according to a recent study from Bentley University, 67 percent of millennials would like to strike out on their own as entrepreneurs. (Even baby boomers are eschewing the typically adult 9-to-5 office job—58 percent say they value flexible work arrangements, says research from PwC.)

Those adults who enter full-time office life are doing so in increasingly casual, childlike circumstances, whether that means areas dedicated to childhood board games, pool, and pinball or playful activities like corporate rock climbing outings. That’s a smart move, according to research out of Harvard’s Edmond J. Safra Center for Ethics which suggests that the mere presence of soft toys like teddy bears, or the ability to watch cartoons on the job, is good for corporate ethics—reducing cheating-like behaviors by 20 percent. The researchers call this boost in morality the “return to innocence” effect.

So maybe it’s not exactly the end of the world when adults choose to spend $1 billion worldwide on superhero movies like Avengers: Age of Ultron (or get tattoos of Disney cartoons). The constantly evolving (devolving?) definition of adulthood might just be turning us into kinder people overall. In 2013, the Society for the Study of Emerging Adulthood found that today’s young adults were shown to be “less selfish and impulsive in their attitudes and behavior.” And millennials, for all their economic woes, are incredibly civically engaged, with more than half of them volunteering regularly. Crayon, anyone?

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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