There are countless women’s issues you could draw attention to this International Women’s Day. You could point to the wage gap or pervasiveness of child marriage or lack of health care access. At the core of all of these inadequacies, though, is education (or, to be more precise, a widespread lack of educational tools provided to young girls). In fact, 130 million women and girls from around the world currently lack access to education. That number is overwhelming, which is why advocacy organization ONE has launched its #GirlsCount campaign with the goal of getting 130 million people to demand equal access for women and girls.


On Wednesday, three young women from northeast Nigeria will join ONE members in staging a walk-in at the United Nations to formally demand world leaders take action to get girls in school. Despite experiencing the horrors perpetrated by Boko Haram and cultural pressures to stay in traditional roles, these three incredible young women continue to pursue their academic dreams and advocate for policies that allow other women to do the same. They are living proof of how rapidly the world can change once girls are given a chance. Here are their stories.

Sa’a

In April of 2014, the Nigerian militant Islamist group, Boko Haram, kidnapped 276 female students from a boarding school in Chibok. On the night of the kidnapping, Sa’a managed to escape by jumping off a truck and hiding in the woods overnight. To this day, 195 of those abducted schoolgirls remain in captivity. Sa’s is currently studying to be a doctor.

“The Boko Haram tried to stop me from getting an education because they believe that we’re not supposed to go to school … Today, I’m here because I was able to escape.

“Whenever I become something in the future, I’ll be able to be an example to others, to the parents, to some girls who maybe wanted an education but couldn’t, and to the Muslim families in that area who believe women are not supposed to get education except high school. I mean, I can be an example to them and an inspiration to them.

“If you stay in that area without getting an education, being poor, you will stay being poor. Because if you don’t get the education, how would you get the money to provide for your family? How would you help your people? I feel like being here getting an education will be an example to others back there that might change their perspective based on what they think about women’s education.”

[quote position=”full” is_quote=”true”]If the mother is educated, the child will also be educated.[/quote]

Suzie

After being forced to marry as a young girl, Suzie escaped in order to pursue her dream of going to school. Now that she’s accomplished that dream, she’s set her sights on becoming a lawyer. She’s the first in her family to go to college.

“I’m here to support Women’s Day because I believe that education is the best thing you can give to a woman… Growing up, when you realize you’re not educated, what else do you expect? You think, my parents are not educated, therefore I’ll be like them. You need someone to motivate you. If you don’t have that person, how can you motivate yourself to become what you want to be?

“The problem starts with the family. If you’re in the village, you live where there’s no light, no electricity. You have to even go without shoes. And you realize your parents only know how to farm, so when you say I need this for school, they don’t really do it for you. If you try to go to school, they’ll say no let’s go to the farm. There’s no one to motivate you and encourage you. Even if you have the passion for it, you end up giving up. I think it has to start with families, so therefore families begin with women. If the mother is educated, the child will also be educated.

“Today, I can actually write, I can speak. I mean, it’s just amazing.”

[quote position=”full” is_quote=”true”]Educating a single woman is educating a whole generation.[/quote]

Zai

Before Boko Haram kidnapped nearly 300 schoolgirls, they attacked Zai’s town, killing her father and shooting her in the head. Thankfully, she survived and she currently goes to college in the United States where she’s earned a 3.8 GPA. She, too, is studying to become a doctor.

“I know quite a few girls in my area who always wanted to go to school, but there are a lot of things that are stopping them. For some, it’s because their parents are poor. They couldn’t afford to send their daughters to school, so they prefer the guys to go to school because the guys will always be there with their dads, but the girls will get married and have to stick with their husbands. Some parents believe in educating guys and not girls. So the highest education girls can get in my area is only high school, and when you’re done you either get married or stay at home. So there are a lot of girls who wanted to go to school but (don’t) because of either the money or the belief that girls are not supposed to go to school.

“I feel like growing up here in a place like America, you will never understand what is happening in other places. So for us growing up in Northern Nigeria having all this experience, we know what a lot of girls are going through and how many girls are not getting an education. But someone growing up here because men and women go to school without any problems. So people here will never understand what’s happening back there until you go there and see it with your eyes or hearing it from someone who has the same experience. So I feel like the only way you’ll know what’s happening in other places is by visiting the other places or hearing from other people. Think about it and decide ok, what can we do to improve girls’ education? What can we do to change the lives of those people suffering?

“Statistics have shown that 130 million women and girls are not educated, which is very bad because educating a girl is like educating a generation. Because she’s going to get married; she’s going to give birth. Educating a single woman is educating a whole generation.”

For their protection, all three women used pseudonyms.

To learn how you can support women like Sa’a, Suzie, and Zai, check out ONE’s #GirlsCount campaign and add your voice to the growing numbers of voices.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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