Eight years ago, I found myself taking refuge from the stresses and boredom of new motherhood by obsessively tuning into Discovery and History channel programs that predicted a far-off future so dire that it seemed like science fiction: East coast hurricanes might one day destroy the New York City subway system, while out-of-control wildfires would eat up entire California mountainsides.


Since then, weather records across the United States have been broken many times over. Several years of historic blizzards have buried the midAtlantic states. Both hurricanes and tornadoes have struck New York City. Baton Rouge, Louisiana, nearly drowned under more than 30 inches of rain in just two days — more than the entire state of California has gotten over the course of its five-year drought. And the summer and early fall of 2017 have brought us multiple “500-year” floods and fires, from Irma and Maria to the fires ravaging the Napa Valley.

As I write these words, the sky outside my small suburban home has turned an apocalyptic purple gray due to a wildfire raging across more than 2,200 acres in the Santa Cruz Mountains. Environmental scientists, some of whom recently announced that our atmospheric carbon levels have “passed the point of no return,” have described our current period of time as the “Anthropocene.” Essentially, the cumulative effects of humankind’s industry and commerce on the planet have turned Mother Nature against us, possibly foreshadowing something called “the sixth extinction” — or our own demise.

While we wait for the world to deliver on the promises of the Paris Agreement, which could take decades, the new mantra of our era may very well be: Get prepared or get out of the way. Extreme weather is here and it’s only going to get worse before it gets better. So what’s the best way to stay safe and calm in a meteorological disaster?

Get Into A Survivor Mindset

“If a person knows a storm is coming and they do nothing and then something bad happens, they’re a victim up one side and down the other,” says Tim MacWelch, a 20-year survival instructor of such notable folks as the United States Armed Forces, the Department of Defense, and the Department of Justice. He’s also the author of “How to Survive Off the Grid: From Backyard Homesteads to Bunkers (and Everything in Between)” and other books.

MacWelch recommends getting into a “survivor mindset” even if you don’t expect cataclysmic weather. “People need to be physically prepared for an interruption in their normal lifestyle, they need to be alert and able to receive information that can impact their safety and even lives, and they need to be ready to move out of harm’s way.”

MacWelch says he “leans toward a better safe than sorry” approach to preparation rather than waiting too long for updates from local authorities to decide what to do. Putting protection of self above property should be a key priority. “Things can be replaced, lives can’t,” says MacWelch.

All families should have a 72-hour survival kit containing food, water, medicines, a first-aid kit, a non-flame-based lighting source (hand-crank or solar-powered flashlights and radios are ideal), and a way to receive information via a radio of some kind in case the electricity goes out.

Make an Evacuation Plan

“When an emergency rears its ugly head, this reminds us that we’re not in charge,” says MacWelch.

One way to feel in control is to develop an evacuation plan, says John Drengenberg, consumer safety director of UL, a global independent safety science company. “Establish an emergency meeting spot,” he advises. “Make sure that children know exactly what to do in the event that you become separated.”

He and other safety experts also recommend establishing an out-of-town contact and meeting location in case family members become separated.

Avoid Unnecessary Damage

Other considerations, according to Deborah Holtzman, author of the books “The Safe Baby: A Do-It-Yourself Guide to Home Safety” and “Healthy Living,” include installing smoke alarms in every bedroom, running generators only outside a home (20 feet away from structures), and posting emergency telephone numbers, including local emergency services, near or on your phone.

It’s also important to learn how to turn your utilities off and on. In situations such as a wildfire or an earthquake, turning off gas lines, for example, could prevent explosions and leaks.

Do Your Research Early

Even if you’ve never experienced more than a gentle rain, chances are climate change will bring surprising weather to your very own doorstep, whether or not you’re prepared. But you can take action ahead of time. Many cities have a Reverse 911 system that allows you to register to have alerts sent to your mobile phone. And the Federal Emergency Management Agency and other sources of aid are just a few clicks away.

MacWelch says he finds it empowering to get prepared well in advance of a catastrophe. It can “remove some of that feeling of helplessness that a lot of people feel when they start to think about emergency planning” — or climate change itself. The urgency of a warming planet becomes more real for me by the minute, as a visible wall of flames rises into the night sky behind my home. But I admit my emergency plan and recently compiled survival kit have staved off panic.

For now.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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