The sixth week of the Pathfinder Fellowship brought us to the HUB LA, which is a loft space in Downtown Los Angeles that’s been redesigned into a creative work space where individuals can go and collaborate. While there, we participated in two separate workshops designed to support and expand our newly developed communication skills.


When we arrived, we were welcomed by Tani Ikeda. Tani co-founded imMEDIAte Justice, which is a community outreach program devoted to empowering young women with the tools for radical documentary filmmaking. Ikeda kicked things off with a writing exercise where we were asked to start our sentence with the prompt, “the truth is.” People are usually reserved when sharing personal feelings but we have become like a family, a second family, so no one is scared to share their personal stories.

After we shared our writing prompt, we all felt strong, passionate, powerful, respected, motivated and slightly surprised because people were sharing a lot more than they did in the beginning of the program. Ikeda praised our ability to turn our truths into real raw emotions. The exercise was real, to the point that the adults even participated and got to express their feelings and emotions. Ikeda directed us to explore a second prompt, “there was a time,” which forced us to go even more in depth.

We then combined excerpts of our responses into mini-monologues, like this:

The truth is I try to project my voice but get turned down.
Where my voice tries to echo yet there is no sound.
There was a time when my audience would listen.
There was a time I would travel through a tunnel until I had a clear straight vision.

We each filmed our monologues and learned how to operate all the equipment you need to make a film—like a video camera, boom mic, a slate, and lighting.

It was inspiring to know that we can communicate truthfully and open up to one another without being judged by our peers. It also felt good knowing that we have people around us that have such similar backgrounds compared to people who just complain about life’s daily routines. Life is real and it’s what you make of it at the end. Just like Kelly Clarkson sings, “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.”

Our individual truths that we wrote in the morning lead to the collective truths of the group in the afternoon, which lead us into the second workshop led by Rudy Espinoza. Espinoza is the Executive Director of LURN, which is a nonprofit dedicated to building stronger communities through innovative work. Before teaching us how to address the collective truths we revealed in the morning workshop, Espinoza shared his own story. He was extremely truthful about his family history—both parents were immigrants with limited education and he was affected by abuse in his home environment. We were all inspired by his eventual achievements in education. He earned both bachelor’s and master’s degrees from top universities. It reminded us that no matter how dark or painful our pasts are, the future still holds promise.

Espinoza’s session focused on helping us see ourselves as advocates for our communities who are able to address the problems in them. He led us through brainstorming the kinds of problems we could solve. We came up with several problems in our community, such as racial profiling, immigration, gang violence, drug use, and overall racism. The group took a vote on which problem to tackle, and we decided that racism was a factor in many of the issues we were talking about. So, we began to discuss solutions to address the racism in our communities.

We quickly realized that Espinoza was not just trying to get us thinking about these issues. He had a technique that we could use to assist us in finding solutions called the “Design Thinking Process.” The process has three steps, and it begins with observing the community and the social environment we come from. The next step is the design of a solution, focusing on making sure that it’s rooted in our observation and the needs of the people that are impacted. Last, but not least, is implementation—setting a timeline and finding allies for your design. Surprisingly, the most important part of this process, said Espinoza, is that even if you fail that’s okay. Through failure you become an expert because you’re trying new things.

Spending the day at The Hub with Ikeda, Espinoza, and the other fellows, we learned how important it is to talk to other people, to learn about their stories, get feedback, and be supportive. After all, that’s what family is about.

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Desiray Figueroa and Airren Kirk are two members of the Pathfinder Fellowship, a joint effort of GOOD/Corps and The California Endowment. They’re working as interns with GOOD’s community team.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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