Tradition is not taken lightly in Tom Nestor Jr.’s family. “My grandfather, father, and numerous uncles are members in the firehouse, or were,” Nestor says proudly. So, once Nestor turned 16, he rushed to join the ranks of the very same Point Breeze Fire Department that he had basically grown up in. Now 17 years old, Nestor is the acting chief’s aide within New York’s Breezy Point volunteer fire department, committed to not only upholding his family’s legacy but also to protecting the greater Breezy community. In celebration of Fire Prevention Month, GOOD is partnering with Nest to share the personal stories of Point Breeze Volunteer Fire Department. Here, we take a closer look into the life of Tom Nestor Jr.; his firehouse, what motivates him each day as a volunteer firefighter, and the daily struggles and triumphs of his profession.


As excited as Nestor was to join the firehouse, the beginning of his probation period in late 2012 also marked Hurricane Sandy ripping through Breezy Point, causing catastrophic damage to the community. “It was unreal,” he remembers. “It was like a military base—cops, firefighters, volunteers, and the military all over the place.” Although Nestor was lucky enough that his own house wasn’t destroyed, he was able to help and witness his fellow firehouse volunteers selflessly give of their time and labor to rebuild the community. That period, trying as it was, also reinforced Nestor’s dedication to his post and the work he has committed himself to. Currently a senior at Xaverian High School in Brooklyn’s Bay Ridge neighborhood, Nestor spends what free time he does have away from the firehouse catching up on his studies, or with his family and friends, some of whom are in the FDNY firehouses. “It’s fun,” Nestor says of hanging out with his family members who are also in civil service. “Each guy always has a life lesson to share, which is essential for me. I’m a young man, and I like hearing stories from my dad, uncles, or family friends about helping people.”

Looking ahead, Nestor is incredibly hopeful for his firefighting future and eager to add to his family’s legacy. “My grandfather was known as one of the “Five Gods” who helped lead the department back in the 60s, all the way to the 90s,” he says. “Even though I never got to meet him, and I’ve heard so much about him, I always know he’s with me at calls or at the firehouse.” Aspiring to rise through the ranks like his grandfather, Nestor remains devoted to keeping the Breezy Point community safe and sound.

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    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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