I had a dream. My late father was in it. I asked him, “What’s new?” He replied that he was on a “market fast.” Then my three year old son woke me up. In the predawn hours I was left to meditate on what my father meant.


Fast is a verb that means to ‘abstain from all or some kinds of food or drink, especially as a religious observance.’ But I am quite sure the message of this dream wasn’t about food. Especially since my father is on plane that doesn’t require traditional sustenance. So here’s what came to me—a ‘market fast’ is the act starving unconscious consumption.
More practically, it’s consciously fasting from markets of goods or services that you believe will damage you or your fellow man. It sounds something like voting with your wallet and it is to a degree. But it’s more imbued with purpose than the act of spending money alone. How we do or don’t spend our time has as profound an impact as anything we do with our money. And where we direct our intentions to or away from has the most profound impact of all. Some practical examples of tools that might help us “fast” from a lack of consciousness:
Fast from products that are toxic to you and the environment.
Fast from investments that aren’t aligned with your values.
Fast from products that use slave labor. A frequent collaborator of mine and board member of Not For Sale, Greg Galle, helped create this amazing app that scans a product barcode and reveals labor abuse in its supply chain.
Fast from the numbing speed of family life. My friends Bernadette Noll and Carrie Contey created the Slow Family Movement to help families slow down, connect and enjoy.
And last but not least, fast from technology. My friend Dan Rollman runs a web based company Record Setter. And yet he helped create Sabbath Manifesto to get people to turn off their technology and connect with themselves and their loved ones.
What are examples of fasts you’ve undertaken and what were the results?
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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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