Last summer, I attended the wedding of an older couple I didn’t know well. With no registry to guide me, I gave them the only gift I knew would be appropriate regardless of political inclination or personal interest: I donated one-10th of a camel in their name.

I bought the share of the creature through Heifer International, a charitable organization that invites first-worlders to help families in developing countries by giving the gift of cows, goats, or yes, camels (the beasts “not only provide transportation,” but also “produce milk that families can drink or sell”). I know about Heifer because, over the past several holiday seasons, my friends and I have received enough livestock donations to staff a small petting zoo.


Charitable organizations have long labored to reframe charitable giving as an adequate replacement for more consumerist stocking stuffers come Christmas. But Heifer International has dominated the holiday charitable giving arena by smartly packaging livestock for the poor as a present for the well-off, too. In 2008, the organization brought in nearly $140 million in contributions.

Heifer’s success relies on its ability to mimic the traditional holiday experience: Charitable giving with the gloss of consumerism. Browsing through Heifer’s gift catalog, which features prominently on the organization’s website and in mailboxes across the country, feels like shopping. Gift givers are invited to assess cutesy portraits of potential presents: A flock of chicks ($20), trio of rabbits ($60), a water buffalo ($150), or a camel ($850, or $85 for a share). The tangibility of the gift is key to Heifer’s appeal—it’s more fun to imagine a struggling family enjoying your buffalo than it is an administrative assistant enjoying your generous donation of printer paper.

Beneath the packaging, though, Heifer’s charitable business model is more abstract. “Gifts made through this catalog represent a gift to the entire mission,” the fine print reads. “To help the most number of families move toward self-reliance, Heifer does not use its limited resources to track gift animals from donation to distribution.” In other words, a water buffalo is not always a water buffalo. “The community expresses which gifts will be most useful,” says Heifer communications specialist Kelly MacNeil. Heifer won’t tell them, “You guys are getting 20 heads of cattle whether you need them or not.”

So when you purchase a collection of baby chicks, you may actually be funding necessary support systems instead—”seeds, or some reforestation in the area, or keeping Heifer management going,” says MacNeil. Donations are also used to help families raise and maintain the animals, then pass along their offspring to other families in need. The money also helps fund the free “honor cards” the organization pairs with donations—images of handsome sheep and cheery holiday messages perfect for slipping under the tree. (Gift givers can cut out the artifice by electing to simply give the money to where it’s most needed).

But Heifer’s catalog of furry friends functions in another way—as holidays bring together family and friends from all political persuasions, Heifer represents a relatively inoffensive choice. Donations to reproductive rights organizations, environmental nonprofits, or explicitly religious groups (Heifer was started by a missionary and works closely with communities of faith, but offers a largely secular service) can be tricky. But though some commentators disagree on Heifer’s approach, few could argue with the idea of giving someone a cow. So the organization’s terminology dances smarty between political ideologies: Heifer offers a “hand-up,” not a “hand-out”; it “empowers” families toward “self-reliance.” And it’s cute enough to be relatable for kids—one parent of a GOOD staffer told me that the organization’s services appeal to her because they “recall the nativity”—but scrubbed of the politically-charged activism of the animal rights movement.

And yet, the gift seems personalized—you were thoughtful enough to decide that grandma might prefer a buffalo over a camel, even if she’s really just getting seeds.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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