Antonio Diaz Chacon was 23-years-old when he jumped in his car to chase down an alleged child abductor. An undocumented immigrant from Mexico, he later rescued the girl and called the police. Isra Daraiseh was a college student during the Flint Michigan hazardous water crisis. She led efforts of Muslim organizations to distribute free drinking water and testing. You've probably never heard of Antonio or Isra, but that is about to change thanks to a provocative new art installation. Reclaiming the Pedestals: Protector Monuments, a pop-up at the intersection of public art, storytelling and activism, asks people to re-imagine what monuments should depict and who they should celebrate.
Life-size statues of Antonio and Isra will be on display along with three other sculptures commissioned by I Am Your Protector (IAYP). The sculptures are created by Joe Reginella, an artist known as "the Banksy of monuments," and will be installed in New York's Union Square. The inspiration behind the project comes from IAYP, a group dedicated to breaking down walls across perceived lines of religious, ethnic and gender divisions. They aim to diffuse the sense of the "other" that people feel towards people unlike themselves. This "otherness" can often become the catalyst for conflict and hate.
Public monuments, which literally place people on pedestals in order to collectively remember and celebrate them as a society, are a reflection of our shared values. Although monuments are all around us in public squares across the globe, the conversations and activism around the lack of representation and symbols of racism among them are growing stronger. Monuments across the globe—from London's Rhodes & Churchill statues to Richmond, Virginia's Davis monument are being protested, vandalized or simply pulled down as the pressure has increased to remove any and all symbols of racism and inequality. In London, the capital's mayor, Sadiq Khan, has announced the convening of a special commission to debate the dismantling (and erection) of city statues.
Positive stories like those of Antonio, Isra and the others in the installation—those from marginalized, misunderstood groups—are seldom told and rarely depicted in our statues. Currently whether through stories circulating online or rhetoric dominating the political sphere, many narratives around these communities inspire polarization, fear, and hatred. Yet, at the same time, the public is underexposed to messages that encourage unity and fellowship.
The genesis of the project was truly an aha moment for Dani Laurence, I Am Your Protector co-founde and lead in the project. Laurence was visiting a museum in Venice several years ago and was attracted to a display of statues. She remembers being struck by the power of their presence—then something clicked making her realize the connection to her mission of telling untold positive stories of refugees and the marginalized. Perhaps this could be a new way to share their stories. "I wanted to think of a way to tell positive stories of refugees and minorities in a way that would be most memorable and it came to me. Statues are both material and conceptual helping us depict how we see ourselves and others. "Imagine," Laurence says with emotion, "A refugee child walking hand in hand with their parent coming across these statues and seeing someone from their own community celebrated on a pedestal—and not disparaged as a burden, or worse, on the nightly news. This changes the narrative in a lasting, memorable way." Four years later that epiphany is becoming a reality.
Each statue tells the story of an individual who protected someone else. For example in 2016, Mohsen Saleh Alwais, a Syrian refugee living in the Netherlands, noticed a crowd of people taking photos watching as a man was drowning in a canal. He instinctively started to take off his jacket and dive into the water. Someone tried to stop him and warn him that if he jumped in then two people would drown. "The first thought in my mind was perhaps that man had a family and children. It's not that I knew him or knew he had a family but that was in my imagination. Because we experienced war and death—the value of family is so strong with me," remembers Alwais. I stopped for a second. I didn't think of the physics, my only thought was about his family–this is what I thought." Alwais was both surprised and humbled when he learned that his saving action was going to be immortalized through a statue of him. And, although he doesn't feel worthy himself, he can see the benefit of the project. "You know what people need? Good people everywhere need a chance to prove their goodness. What you hear on news and social media and especially with refugees you hear only negative stories, nobody shows refugees in a good way. Perhaps this can change the ideology that there are good refugees---they are human...this could."
A New Yorker, construction worker Wesley Autrey, is represented for his life-saving actions when he noticed a man collapsed on subway tracks and jumped down to save his life. As the one train appeared, Autrey covered the man with his body as five train cars rolled menacingly close above. Also featured are Jewish security guards who protected mosques in London following anti-Muslim incidents.
Grieving couple comforting each other
This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.