When Jerich Marco Alcantara’s excited friends and relatives piled into a New York City subway car on Tuesday, they were hoping to travel from their home in Queens, New York, to Alcantara’s graduation from Hunter College on the Upper East Side of Manhattan. Alcantara had already donned his purple cap and gown, and together, they were ready to celebrate his being the first person in the family to graduate from college. Let the festivities begin!
Except that Gotham’s subway system, notorious for its long delays, had other plans. The train Alcantara’s group was riding on suffered an emergency brake failure—which meant that instead of being early to Hunter’s commencement ceremony, they were going to miss it entirely. That’s when, spurred by Alcantara’s sense of humor, his relatives and strangers on the train held an impromptu “graduation” in the subway car.
“After 45 minutes, I knew I was already late, but I kept hoping that I’d at least make it to walking the stage,” Alcantara told local station WABC. “Everyone seemed annoyed, and by that time, my commencement was already about an hour in,” he said. “So I felt like lightening the mood and thanked everyone for ‘coming to my graduation.’ Told them it meant a lot to me, and they applauded it.”
Fellow subway rider Nadiya Afzal, captured the ceremony with her phone and uploaded it to Facebook on Tuesday afternoon. “Poor kid missed his graduation because of the train delay this morning … so we threw him a graduation on the train,” she wrote. Nearly 2 million people have viewed the clip so far.
As you can see in the video, Alcantara’s friends blasted Green Day’s “Good Riddance (Time of Your Life)” on a speaker and one presented him with a diploma that he’d made on his phone as passengers on the subway car looked on. “If you want a copy of my diploma, turn on your AirDrop,” Alcantara says to them in the clip. As frustrating as subway delays are, it’s heartwarming to see smiling riders offering their congratulations to him.
“I've witnessed a lot of things on the trains, but this was a very special moment,” Afzal told WABC. “It was just a nice moment, to see we all came together for him. He deserved it.”
Altogether the train delay lasted nearly three hours, Alcantara, who earned a nursing diploma from Hunter College, sees the silver living. “I think it ended up so much better than if I was on time,” he said. “I would have probably fell (sic) asleep if I was at commencement.”
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.