Four months into the COVID-19 pandemic, Americans have made up their minds about the president's response and it's not pretty. A Quinnipiac University poll released Wednesday found that 62% of registered voters say Trump is hurting the effort to fight COVID-19.
Meanwhile, 67% of registered voters don't trust the information he shares about the disease.
Maryland's Republican Governor Larry Hogan shared his personal experience dealing with "the man who was supposed to be our leader" in a Washington Post op-ed and it's damning to say the least.
The article recounts how governors across the country essentially gave up on the idea there would be any cogent response from Washington D.C. and decided to go it alone. That accounts for why there was, in Hogan's words, a "patchwork" response to the pandemic.
After realizing that there wouldn't be a reliable response from the federal government, Hogan and other lawyers decided to take things into their own hands.
I'd watched as the president downplayed the outbreak's severity and as the White House failed to issue public warnings, draw up a 50-state strategy, or dispatch medical gear or lifesaving ventilators from the national stockpile to American hospitals. Eventually, it was clear that waiting around for the president to run the nation's response was hopeless; if we delayed any longer, we'd be condemning more of our citizens to suffering and death. So every governor went their own way, which is how the United States ended up with such a patchwork response.
As the number of cases grew, Trump did nothing.
Meanwhile, instead of listening to his own public health experts, the president was talking and tweeting like a man more concerned about boosting the stock market or his reelection plans.
Hogan then describes Trump's disorganized response to the virus.
He avowed, falsely, that "anybody" could get a test, even as my fellow governors were desperately pleading for help on testing. Then he shifted from boasting to blame. "We inherited a very obsolete system" from the Obama administration, he claimed, conveniently ignoring the fact that his own CDC had designed the troubled U.S. testing system and that his own Food and Drug Administration had waited a full month before allowing U.S. hospital labs to develop their own tests.
On March 25, the president was back to bragging again. "We now are doing more testing than anybody by far," including South Korea, whose widespread testing program was being praised around the world.
This was a false claim because South Korea have well over five times more testing per capita.
All the while governors struggled to get tests and equipment, the president stood in their way.
Governors always do the hard work, make the tough decisions and take the political heat. But an undertaking as large as a national testing program required Washington's help. We expected something more than constant heckling from the man who was supposed to be our leader.
Hogan's scramble to acquire tests was successful, securing 500,000 from South Korea. While Hogan's efforts were a success, the president bashed him for it due to his dislike for South Korea.
I thought we might get a congratulatory word from the president. Trump always had a taste for bold gestures — but, apparently, only for bold gestures he could claim. The president spent much of the following Monday's White House briefing criticizing me and dismissing what we had done. "The governor from Maryland didn't really understand" about testing, Trump grumbled. "The governor of Maryland could've called Mike Pence, could've saved a lot of money. . . . I don't think he needed to go to South Korea. I think he needed to get a little knowledge."
While other developed countries are opening up and reporting fewer and fewer infections, the U.S. just hit an all-time seven-day high for its infection rate. As the infections increase, lockdowns continue and deaths rise, Trump's inaction is getting harder to hide.
You can read the entire op-ed at The Washington Post.
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.