Last week, GOOD wrote about Alex Purdy, a college freshman who recently left her sorority because she “was so upset to see the way that women were treating other women.” In a video she released on YouTube, Purdy speaks of being disillusioned with a system she thought would help her find a stronger sense of self and build lasting relationships. Instead, she was stuck in a world defined by pettiness and rigid conformity. Although Purdy’s experience isn’t rare, more than 9 percent of female undergraduates participate in the Greek system. So it’s a disservice to many young women to paint all sororities with a such a broad brush.
To combat sexist sorority stereotypes, the girls of Delta Zeta (Beta Gamma Chapter) at the University of Louisville in Kentucky created a Facebook campaign, #BreakTheStereotype. They started by posting photos of themselves with society’s perception written on one hand and their educational goals and personal accomplishments on the other. Delta Zeta’s Facebook page states: “We are more than a stereotype. We are strong, independent women with many accomplishments and goals. We are bilingual, doctors, engineers, hunters, lawyers, and so much more.”
If you’re a current or former member of the Greek system who’s eager to change general perceptions of sororities, Delta Zeta asks you to join the conversation at #BreakTheStereotype.
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.