It’s a new day for soccer in the U.S. — or at least that’s what World Cup and Olympic Champion Hope Solo and other advocates for the sport would like to think.
Earlier this month, Solo was unsuccessful in her run against Carlos Cordeiro to become the first new president of the U.S. Soccer Federation since 2006, but she’s not done fighting yet. Solo believes Cordeiro could be the key to setting things right on a number of fronts, from providing more access for underrepresented youth to elevating the game’s appeal in the media and creating equity for all players in pay, endorsements, and support.
“My campaign was all about being more collaborative, inclusive, working on teams,” Cordeiro recently told Sports Illustrated. “You will see a very different leadership [from former President Sunil Gulati’s] going forward.”
It might be said that Solo, too, is exuding a more sophisticated leadership style herself these days. During her nearly 20 years on the national team, she has been devoted to working on equitable pay for male and female soccer players. And while she’s been sidelined in the past by a number of controversies at home and on the field — not to mention the fear that comes with challenging your employer as a whistleblower — today she seems more determined than ever to build on the momentum of the growing women’s movement that’s taken hold across the nation.
GOOD caught up with Solo at the 2018 Laureus Sports Awards in Monaco to find out what’s next in the fight to make U.S. soccer more accessible, equitable, and supportive for all of its players.
What’s next, now that the election is behind you?
The election was really important because we highlighted a lot of the challenges that we face as Americans for soccer, and now it’s somebody’s responsibility to push those issues forward. I’m not going to stop pushing those issues forward, but ultimately the one who can really help us the most is the new president, Carlos Cordeiro. He has a great opportunity to really change the dynamics of soccer in America. But we have to hold him accountable, and I’ll continue to speak about these issues.
Are you hopeful that change is coming?
We still have the Equal Employment Opportunity Claim pending. We’ll continue to fight for women's equality. It's just an ongoing battle, to be quite honest. It’s not something that changes overnight. It's not something that we can fight one day and just hope that it will take care of itself.
The popular thing right now is women’s empowerment. The popular thing is wearing shirts that say “women’s rights,” but that’s not enough. We have to do so much more. We should use our voices. We have to continue to speak about it and get more people involved, we have to educate people. We have to get the media behind us and talk to senators. I think that’s with anything, with the #metoo campaign and with reaching out to underrepresented communities to give them more opportunities in soccer.
How do you stay strong while fighting for these issues?
I think it’s very easy to get bullied and intimidated. It’s not easy to go through it, but it oftentimes is a tactic that works. The other tactic that’s in use is “divide and conquer,” and it’s a tactic that to this day works. I’ve had my moments where I've been scared and frustrated and hurt. But I’m happy to say that I don't really get pushed around anymore. I don’t really get bullied. I think that’s because I have great people around me. A group that really is intelligent, they’re educated, they’re confident in themselves and confident in what we’re fighting for, and at the end of the day, we know we’re going to be on the right side of history. That’s important.
People can say what they want about me right now, and I’ll deal with those repercussions and those judgments — but 10 years from now, looking back, what really are they going to say? They’ll say, “Hope was somebody who exercised her right to push issues forward.” As a woman especially, to vocalize your opinion and to do it with strength and confidence ... a lot of people don’t like that. But once people realize they can’t intimidate you, they back off. At some point, we have to figure out a way to work together.
Aside from equal pay, what other issue needs the most attention in soccer right now?
After running for the president of U.S. Soccer, I was heartbroken to see all of the kids that we are neglecting. We’re alienating entire populations throughout America. We’re not welcoming them to the global game of soccer. But then I’ve also been inspired by seeing a select group of people who are really, really trying to fight for these young kids and giving them different avenues and scholarships. But it’s not enough. It’s not enough to change the dynamics of soccer in America unless somebody from the top helps us, which means U.S. Soccer and the $100 million in surplus funds needs to be distributed throughout amateur soccer.
These issues affect all of us, so I really hope we can figure out a way to work together. I think that’s where we are right now. Carlos Cordeiro and [I] have to figure out — OK, these issues aren’t going away. What can we do to make sure everybody’s taken care of?
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.