Even a decade ago, NBA superstar LeBron James’ talents were such that his dismantlement of basketball records was a virtual certainty. That doesn’t mean that the actual moments the milestones are achieved are any less special for the one they call “King James,” but for fans of the game, his achievements are hardly a surprise — and even LeBron himself could have seen these moments coming.
Now, as the Cleveland Cavalier is expected to score his 30,000th point against the Spurs this week — he’s currently sitting seven points away at 29,993 — James has taken to Instagram to congratulate … himself … prior to the actual event.
Odd? Yes. But also endearing, as his Instagram post is prefaced with the statement that he wanted to be the first to congratulate himself. The post is written in the second person, so the message reads as though he’s offering his words to his younger self, an interpretation that’s supported by his sign off: “Congrats again Young King.”
While some may raise an eyebrow at publicly congratulating oneself prior to actually achieving a goal, the accomplishment is a historic one. Only six other players have reached the 30,000-point plateau: Kareem Abdul-Jabbar (38,387), Karl Malone (36,928), Kobe Bryant (33,643), Michael Jordan (32,292), Wilt Chamberlain (31,419), and Dirk Nowitzki (30,837). Of those six, soon to be seven, only Nowitzki and James are still active in the league today.
The achievement comes at a time of tumult for the Cavaliers. The team is plagued by rumors of internal discord and are 3-7 in their last 10 games, so LeBron’s positivity, even if directed at himself, serves as a bright spot for Cleveland fans.
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.