In 1999, when we turned our camera on our son Idris, and his best friend Seun, they were beginning kindergarten at the prestigious Dalton School in New York City. We had great expectations for the boys and were eager to document their journey through school. We were confident that this incredible opportunity would set them on a course for academic success and we wanted to capture it all on film. But as we navigated the education system and wrestled with the same questions most new parents face, we knew that we had a different story to tell.


This experience pushed us to expose the impact of the unique social and emotional needs of black boys on their academic performance. As black boys, our sons’ futures were riddled with extra hurdles: they would be twice as likely as their white counterparts to be held back in school, three times as likely to be suspended, and half as likely to graduate college.

American Promise is our family’s personal story of raising black sons—but the trials we document are things that every family faces, particularly those with boys of color. We hope to use our journey as a magnifying glass to explore how each of us—as parents, teachers, and members of a larger community—can play a role in shaping the identities of our nation’s black boys.

The film examines some of the factors that allow the opportunity gap to occur. The complicated reality of how racial dynamics play out today in education relates to the impact of perceptions and how our kids, particularly boys, have to deal with implicit bias and stereotypes on a daily basis. Acceptance and feelings of belonging are about how our children are perceived when they walk in the classroom and what expectations their educators and peers have for them. It’s also about the impact those perceptions and expectations have on our children’s feelings about themselves and how they perform. This is what experts have termed the “racial academic achievement gap”—a performance gap that is often fueled by stereotyping and implicit bias. Black and Latino boys feel the effects of the gap most keenly.

Fourteen years after we began filming, American Promise is a documentary as well as a national campaign working to advance the success of black boys. We hope the film will help galvanize a national conversation on what it takes for parents, educators, and the community to help further the academic success and socio-emotional health of black boys.

We’ve built tools for parents and caregivers who want to help our black boys, and ensure that all young people are equipped with the same opportunities for excellence. You can visit www.americanpromise.org to learn more about our resources for parents and caregivers—including our upcoming book, Promises Kept: Raising Black Boys to Succeed in School and in Life—and the Promise Club, a parent support group initiative to create local parent communities that are safe places to discuss and strategize how to support our sons. There is also an educator’s professional development curriculum designed to help educators discuss and examine different pedagogical approaches when engaging with black male students.

American Promise opened in New York City on October 18th and opens in cities across the country (click here for theaters and dates) on Friday, October 25th. In the meantime, watch the trailer above, share it with your friends and family, and join the conversation, on Facebook, Twitter, and in the theater! And, let’s all work together to use that conversation to spark real changes for black boys in this country.

Pledge to catalyze real change for black boys and close the opportunity gap. Click here to say you’ll do it.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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