Frank Martin knows that he has a well-deserved reputation for being an explosive and emotive presence on the sidelines as South Carolina’s basketball coach. While his squad didn’t make it into the NCAA tournament this year, his remarks at his season-ending press conference have him competing with March Madness for headlines.
While yelling and gesticulating may serve as trademarks of his coaching style, he made clear that he dials the theatrics all the way down when he’s watching his kids play. In his speech, he laid out his rationale for sitting down, staying positive, and why all other parents in youth sports should follow suit.
A transcript of his statement (via FTW), follows.
I know this, I’m the most animated coach you’ve probably ever seen when my team’s playing. I go watch my kids play, I don’t say boo. I don’t wave my arms. I don’t try to coach my kids. With all due respect to most parents out there, I probably know more about basketball than them. But I sit in the stands and don’t say a word.
There’s two guys refereeing a fourth-grade game on a Sunday morning. What could they possibly be making? Twenty bucks a game? … So on Sunday morning, instead of being in church, those guys are out there trying to make a couple bucks, pay their bills, feed their families. You think they really care which fourth-grade team wins? Do you really think they sat home and said I can’t wait to go officiate that game — I can’t wait to get that 10-year-old kid and embarrass him in front of people. Do you really think that’s what they’re doing?
While many may find his comments hypocritical, as he’s known as one of the most outspoken and aggressive coaches in college ball, it’s clear from his speech that he recognizes a profound difference between a collection of kids looking to try a new sport, and a team of collegiate players in pursuit of victory.
If this guy can rein in his behavior for the sake of kids’ development …
... then parents of young kids trying their best can certainly follow suit for the sake of their children’s development.
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.