You don’t have to have 15 tour wins to your name to spot a golf cheater, but it certainly adds some credibility to your claim when you do. Suzann Pettersen is an LPGA Tour member and a friend of Donald Trump. As such, she’s golfed with the now-president on countless occasions for more than a decade and can confirm that yup, he cheats at golf.
Depending on how inclusive one’s definition of “cheating” is, she also freely admits that Trump regularly lies about his score, touting far fewer strokes than his handicap or scorecards would suggest.
Recently, Pettersen spoke with the Norwegian publication Verdens Gang about his systematically shady golf practices. Not mincing any words about her friend’s approach to the game, she shared:
“He cheats like hell ... so I don’t quite know how he is in business. They say that if you cheat at golf, you cheat at business. I’m pretty sure he pays his caddie well, since no matter how far into the woods he hits the ball, it’s in the middle of the fairway when we get there.”
And that “three handicap” (the number of strokes by which a golfer regularly exceeds par) Trump is so quick to boast about? Well, that’s pure fantasy, according to Pettersen.
“Yes, yes, that happens all the time. He always says he is the world’s best putter. But in all the times I’ve played him, he’s never come close to breaking 80. But what’s strange is that every time I talk to him he says he just golfed a 69, or that he set a new course record or won a club championship some place. I just laugh. I’m someone who likes being teased and I like teasing others, and Trump takes it well, and that must be why he likes me.”
Perhaps that’s why he likes her. Or perhaps the universe of golfers — professionals, no less — who would tolerate this sort of behavior is small enough that Trump cherishes those who do.
After her remarks were published, Pettersen was quick to walk back her comments, stating that she said them in a lighthearted manner rather than as accusations.
According to the article, Trump regularly forgoes his putt on the 18th and final hole to keep his score a stroke or two lower than it should actually be.
Concern over Trump’s golf course behavior is far from paramount, but the parade of accounts similar to this one suggests that his cheating is so flagrant and frequent that it’s hard not to conflate the practices with those of a man who carries with him both entitlement and a disregard for any rule that hampers his ego or reputation.
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.