Every year during the NCAA’s College Basketball Tournament — more fondly known as March Madness — a “Cinderella” story emerges, and an underdog team wins our hearts and gets a chance to play in the big dance.
One of the most exciting Cinderella stories in the Final Four happened in 2011, when Butler University fought its way back for a second appearance in two years, only to lose again. Devastated by the loss but inspired by the way the state had come together to rally behind the Bulldogs, Butler alum Matt McIntyre and his friend Matt Duncan created what would become Indianapolis-based nonprofit Brackets for Good.
The organization has been building on that enthusiasm to create support and awareness for social causes across the country since its first online tournament in 2012. It has helped raise nearly $6.3 million for hundreds of nonprofits.
“We don’t always know about the good work that’s happening in our community,” says Reid McDowell, partnerships and marketing director for Brackets for Good. “And we thought it was really powerful the way that sport can bring people together and get people excited.”
Every March, nonprofits register for bracket-style tournaments on the Brackets for Good website based on their location. Modeled after the real March Madness, the organizations are paired up in friendly 64-team matchups based on size and fundraising capacity. Individual donors can learn about and donate to score points to help their favorite charity advance in the tournament. A $1 donation equals one point. The organization with the most points when the round ends advances, and the organization that advances through the entire bracket tournament wins an additional grant.
Most importantly, McDowell, notes, individuals learn about and support world-changing organizations. And nonprofits play for free and keep all funds raised no matter how far they advance.
One such charity participating for the first time in this year’s tournament is PeacePlayers International, which is devoted to using the power of sport to unite, educate, and inspire young people to create peace. Through basketball programming and leadership development, the organization works to heal communities in conflict, having addressed areas such as South Africa, Cyprus, and the Middle East. So far, PeacePlayers has trained 2,000 coaches and involved 75,000 youth.
In the U.S., PeacePlayers has been working in partnership with Nike, focusing on promoting safe communities by creating positive interactions between law enforcement and the people they serve in cities like Baltimore and Detroit. In many cases, police officers are serving as basketball coaches to rebuild or repair trust and change perceptions on both sides.
But a big piece of their work involves building trust with other local partner organizations and potential new donors, too. That’s where Brackets for Good comes in, especially in March, when the focus is already on basketball.
“What we historically have done really well is build trust and relationships by getting the right local people involved,” says Mandy Murphy, head of growth and strategy at PeacePlayers. “We don't want to just come in and take a big photo op and leave. We want to help create systemic change over time — and sometimes that can feel like a painfully long fight.”
That’s not to say fun can’t be had along the way. PeacePlayers has already advanced to the “Supported 16” round, engaging in what Murphy calls “friendly competition” with other local nonprofits to help raise awareness by engaging in light-hearted social media banter on one another’s campaigns.
McDowell says the engagement is working, particularly with the coveted millennial audience: 36% of Brackets for Good donors are millennials, and nearly 31% are first-time donors.
“It’s a win-win for everyone,” he says. “This is an opportunity for nonprofits to come together in a really fun way. Brackets for Good works because 60% of the nonprofits in the community are all joining in on the same fundraising campaign. They’re literally fundraising for each other.”
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.