Whataboutism is the last refuge for someone who can’t admit they’re wrong. You hear it all the time in the world of politics. “Our side did something wrong? Well, your side did something wrong once, too,” is how the straw man argument goes.

The 2016 election was the whataboutism Olympics. “Donald Trump defrauded people with Trump University? So what, The Clinton Foundation did blah, blah, blah.”

Resorting to whataboutism doesn’t mean you won the argument. It means you have no way to defend yourself, so you point the finger elsewhere.

Saying we’re both wrong still makes you wrong. It also prevents people from confronting real issues.


This type of logic is flying high right now among right-wing commentators. Many are floating a major false equivalency by comparing the insurrection of Trump supporters at the Capitol on Wednesday to the property destruction that occurred during the summer’s Black Lives Matter protests.

We heard this argument from Ben Shapiro.

Candace Owens made a similar comparison.

Fox News’ Tomi Lahren chimed in with her whataboutery on Wednesday.


Property destruction and violence should never be tolerated no matter who’s involved. But what we break and why we break it is important. Being able to distinguish between the two events is crucial to learning from them. The more we shoo them away with whataboutism the further our country diverges from its ultimate desire to be a more perfect union.

This was an attempt to destroy the U.S. government

There is a big difference between looting a Target and ransacking the U.S. Capitol in an attempt to stop an election from being certified. One is an act of terror designed to bring down the basic fibers that tie our country together. If democracy is subverted, so are our laws, freedoms, and the ability to defend 330 million people from foreign invasion.

While we’re not defending looting, the items in a brick-and-mortar retail store can be replaced and are not tethered to our shared sense of national democratic origin and purpose. If a Target and the U.S. Capitol are truly one and the same in your eyes, you might want to consult with your doctor.


This insurrection was based on conspiracies, not reality

The insurrectionists who ransacked the Capitol building came from a Trump rally near the White House. At the rally, the president claimed the election was stolen from him, although there is no evidence for his claim.

Anyone who’s looked into the issue can plainly see that the president and his enablers were lying. They filed 62 lawsuits seeking to overturn election results in states the president lost, and only one was successful.

His lone victory didn’t provide any credence for his claims the election was stolen.

“We will stop the steal!” Trump said when taking the stage. “We won it by a landslide. This was no close election.”

“They rigged an election. They rigged it like never before,” Trump said Wednesday.

Conversely, the Black Lives Matter protests were about something real. They were a reaction to the murder of George Floyd by a cop in Minneapolis. A brutal death we saw on tape. It was also about the deaths of Breonna Taylor, Ahmaud Arbery, and Eric Garner.

The protests were about the systemic police brutality that terrorizes people of color.

There is no disputing the fact that Black Americans are 3.23 times more likely than white Americans to be killed by police.


Intent matters

According to a report by The Daily Beasts’ Will Sommer, who was on the ground at the Trump rally and ensuing insurgency, “every single attendee he spoke with raised the prospect of violence if they don’t get what they want.”

This stands in stark contrast to the Black Lives Matter protests that took place in hundreds of cities across the country. The protests were designed to raise awareness about systemic racism and to put an end to the undo violence against people of color.

The Black Lives Matter protests had no intention of being destructive and according to The Armed Conflict Location & Event Data Project, 93% of the 7,750 demonstrations in all 50 states and Washington D.C. were peaceful.

The Capitol insurrection was incited by the president of the United States

Reuters probably said it best on January 6: “Trump summoned supporters to ‘wild’ protest, and told them to fight. They did.”

“Big protest in DC on January 6th. Be there, will be wild!” Trump tweeted, announcing the event.

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Thousands of people showed up to the rally and he urged the angry mob of supporters to go to the Capitol building and influence lawmakers as they certified the election for Joe Biden.

“We’re going to walk down to the Capitol and we’re going to cheer on our brave senators and Congressmen and women,” Trump told the crowd.

So he riled up thousands of people with lies and then directed them to take action against a group of lawmakers who were sitting ducks in the House chamber.

Trump’s former Secretary of Defense, James Mattis put the blame solely on Trump’s shoulders. “Today’s violent assault on our Capitol, an effort to subjugate American democracy by mob rule, was fomented by Mr. Trump,” Mattis said in a statement.

Republican Senator Mitt Romney agrees, saying the tragedy an “insurrection incited by the president of the United States.”

The president essentially sent his minions to try and destroy the foundations of American democracy. There is zero equivalent in the destructive events that accompanied a small percentage of Black Lives Matter events.

Then Democratic presidential candidate Joe Biden vehemently denounced violence and property damage at the protests.

On May 31, he wrote in a statement on Medium that protesting police brutality is “right and necessary” and “an utterly American response.”

“But burning down communities and needless destruction is not,” Biden wrote. “Violence that endangers lives is not. Violence that guts and shutters businesses that serve the community is not.”

The argument that Black Lives Matter protests and the Capitol building insurrection are comparable reminds me of a saying that provides a great rubric for discussing political events.

There are those who want to want to get it right and those who want to be right. Those that want to be right point their fingers in the other direction when faced with confronting harsh truths. Those who want to get it right to examine the situation and try to learn from what happened to form a correct opinion.

Studies show that the death of George Floyd and the dialog it sparked in America had a dramatic effect on the perceptions of race. After the murder and protests, the percentage of white people who now saw race as a “big problem” increased three-fold.

This wasn’t achieved by pointing a finger in the other direction, but by inspiring introspection and stoking greater societal urge to make things better.

If conservatives are going to learn anything from an event that exposed the danger that heated conspiratorial rhetoric is having on the country, they will need to take a good look at the culture they’ve created, not point to the events of last summer.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
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    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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