The price of everything is through the roof, leaving many couples struggling to plan date nights. But you don't need money to reconnect with your partner. There are plenty of creative ways to have fun without breaking the bank. In fact, some of these creative date night ideas are just as fun—if not more—than an expensive night out.
Before you get to date night, do a quick check in on your relationship to make sure your communication and empathy for each other is on track. Psychologist Mark Travers encourages people to inject novelty into their relationships. Fortunately, fun comes in a variety of price-points, with the most meaningful costing $0.
Explore your own city
Not everyone has the budget to jet off to a tropical island when they need to reconnect or recharge. But you can explore your city or town. Travers says these "micro-adventures" can be as simple as trying a new coffee shop or wine bar—or even booking a hotel room for a staycation.
Check out new-to-you bookstores and restaurants. Lace up your hiking boots and set out on a local trail. Is there a restaurant one or both of you have been dying to try? Make a reservation, get dressed up, and enjoy your night out on the town.
The shared adventure gives you and your partner something to hold dear when you are in the muck of daily life and parenting.
There are plenty of low or no-cost date ideas.Canva
Make a fancy meal together
A lovely night can be had by choosing a recipe, shopping for the ingredients, and cooking it together. Select your wine or beverage of choice and enjoy the evening. A board game or favorite movie can round out the night.
Check out local parks
Pack a picnic and take it to a park. Spread your blanket under a tree and enjoy a beautiful day. Often, parks have free concert series or you could check out a comedy club or open mic night. Explore your city like a tourist.
Couples can energize their relationship by finding bonding moments that reignite their wonder.Canva
Do your hobbies together
Maybe you love to knit and your husband likes to play video games. You can knit while he plays. This way you are each enjoying something you love, together. This is called parallel play in psychology circles.
"As a result, couples can easily stay bonded without burning themselves out," Travers wrote. "Low-pressure, comfortable companionship supports deeper intimacy just as much as active socialization can."
Look back on your traditions
Remember your first date? That thing that went wrong at your wedding that nearly ruined the day? Talk about these things together and find the humor in it.
"Rituals play an integral part of relationship satisfaction, quality, and intimacy," Travers pointed out. "Happy couples leverage this by giving the activities that once brought them together a cherished place in their relationship."
Talk and dream with your partner the way you did when you were newly in a relationship. How have the dreams you had in the early days of the relationship played out? What new dreams do you have for the future?