Robert Egger and his L.A. Kitchen are redefining how to feed communities in need.
This weekend, he’s getting more than a little help from his friends at the Los Angeles Chargers, who will be underwriting a new initiative to serve 30,000 meals to people in need at the Summit LA17, the flagship ideas festival in downtown Los Angeles. Egger hopes to spark a movement and inspire other conferences to do the same during the next year as part of the “One Table Pledge.”
“People are hungry. We have the opportunity to mobilize a community of 4,000 leaders at LA17 to help alleviate some of the suffering in the world,” says Michael Hebb, senior advisor and creative producer at Summit.
Hebb says the idea for the One Table Pledge was inspired by early conversations with Egger. “It became clear that with the right partner (thank you, Los Angeles Chargers) we could match meal for meal, attendee meal to L.A. Kitchen delivered meal, to someone in need,” he says.
Then Hebb thought about using the partnership to lead the charge in the conference world to catalyze change: recruit dozens, if not hundreds, of other conferences to do the same and feed hundreds of thousands, if not millions, of people in each city that hosts a conference.
As thought leaders from around the world gather at Summit LA17, the goal is to collectively inspire every event, conference, and trade show to join them in taking the One Table Pledge in 2018, to match every meal consumed with feeding an underserved community in need. Summit hopes to have 3 million meals served to those in need by the time they reconvene in Los Angeles next year.
Dean Spanos, owner and chairman of the Los Angeles Chargers, will be on-hand along with offensive tackle Russell Okung to help serve meals throughout the weekend. Eager to think differently about community engagement as the Los Angeles Chargers put down roots in a new city, they’ve created a “Fight for LA” platform to support efforts like the One Table Pledge and other important community-building efforts, such as the L.A. Marathon or fitness clinics in Inglewood.
“We are excited to support the insightful conversations and meaningful actions created by L.A. Kitchen and Summit,” said Spanos, in a statement. “This initiative aligns perfectly with our own effort to effect positive change in underserved and underrepresented areas of Los Angeles.”
Egger is at the forefront of doing just that. He pioneered the model of L.A. Kitchen — a culinary organization that rescues cosmetically imperfect food for a training program — during his 24-year tenure as the president of the DC Central Kitchen, to create the country’s first “community kitchen.” Food is donated by hospitality businesses and farms and used to fuel a nationally recognized culinary arts job-training program called Empower L.A.
Since its inception in 1988, Egger’s “community kitchen” concept has produced more than 40 million meals and employed 1,500 men and women. The affiliated for-profit social business Strong Food then hires program graduates, prioritizes serving healthy meals to seniors, and reinvests profits into the training program. His goal is to leave no person hungry and no food wasted.
He’s hoping that, with the Chargers’ help, the program’s numbers can grow exponentially. While the L.A. Kitchen currently serves a few thousand meals each month, he’d like to see that number grow to 15,000 a month in 2018.
“Los Angeles sets the record for these perceived negatives,” Egger says of the number of people in need, “but these men and women can be part of the solution.”
Throughout the 14-week training program, students participate in a variety of culinary training, self-empowerment programs, and local internships. Dynamic lessons from executive chef instructors provide hands-on experience, and nutritionists and social workers help with life skills and professional development.
What makes it particularly special is that youth who have aged out of the foster care system, along with adults who have been incarcerated, homeless, or otherwise in need of work, are able to participate in the program alongside one another, bridging a generational gap, Egger says. Upon graduation, students are able to find placements in internships or jobs in restaurants or businesses around the city or with L.A. Kitchen’s Strong Food arm.
But what does the future hold for feeding those in need — especially as the number of people needing help grows each year? It starts with rethinking sustainable nutrition.
“We have access to a number of beautiful fruits and vegetables, and alternate proteins, that have evolved into incredibly sophisticated products where you can’t tell the difference,” Egger explains. “To serve more meals on a consistent basis, we need to move away from the idea of a four-compartment plate with meat at the center.”
With enough voltage, Egger hopes his disruptive ideas will catch on.
“Food is not just gas for the body,” he says. “There’s power in eating something nutritious. And we can use it to stimulate the economy, and we can use it to create social change.”
Grieving couple comforting each other
This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.