Carl Sagan, surveyor of the cosmos, astrophysicist, author, and astronomer would have been 81 years old today. The impact he’s had on how humans view the cosmos is almost as vast as the universe itself.
His message for humanity has never been more relevant.
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Carl Sagan’s words about the importance of understanding our place in the universe are powerful. For him, our future depends on two things: how well we understand the stars, and, above all, our ability to combine imagination and skepticism to explore our place in the universe. Astronomer Neil deGrasse Tyson has picked up where Sagan left off, bringing new life to the journey in the Fox series The Cosmos: A Spacetime Odyssey, a follow-up to Sagan’s 1980 series Cosmos: A Personal Voyage.
Dig this: “The cosmos is all that is, or ever was, or ever will be. We long to return, and we can, [...] because the cosmos is within us. We’re made of stardust. We are a way for the cosmos to know itself.” What will you leave behind?
Grieving couple comforting each other
This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.