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Coaches ran onto a field to confront an 11-year-old girl for being too old. Then her mom fought back.

'We as adults need to do better': A mom's message after her daughter was bullied by coaches.

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During a softball game in June of last year, 11-year-old Brinley Stephens hit a line drive for her team. What should have been a great moment was shattered when two coaches from the opposing team stormed the field, not to talk to the umpire, but to confront Brinley directly.

Their demand, yelled in the middle of the game and in front of a crowd of parents and kids, was shocking: “I want to see birth certificates or this game's done!”


The two men were accusing Brinley, who is tall for her age at 5'10", of being too old to compete. The sudden, aggressive confrontation left the fifth-grader stunned and in tears.

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“It was like, scary, like, him coming at me,” Brinley later recounted to Good Morning America. “And I was just looking at him like, 'What the heck was going on?'”

Watching from the sidelines, her mother, Tracy Burchfield, felt helpless. “I was holding back my tears because I was like, 'Oh my gosh, she's out there by herself. There are these two adults confronting her,’” she said. “Thank God that our coach was there to step in between.”


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What made the situation even more absurd was that all players, including Brinley, had already proven their age to the league before the season began. This wasn't a legitimate concern; it was a display of poor sportsmanship aimed at a child.

The Aftermath

Brinley’s coach de-escalated the on-field situation, but Burchfield reported that the other coaches continued making obscene gestures at parents after the game. Determined to see them held responsible, she took the issue to the league association.

Following an investigation, one coach was suspended for the year, while the other received a 10-day suspension and a year of probation. Benjie Hedgecock, the executive director of North American Fastpitch, made it clear who was at fault. “We are still investigating the incident. The player did nothing wrong as she is just tall…and skilled for her age,” he stated.

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After the story went public, Burchfield heard from countless other parents whose children had faced similar treatment in youth sports. It solidified her resolve to speak out.

“It doesn't take much to hurt a kid that much and make them just stop believing in themselves,” Burchfield remarked. “These kids deserve better. We as adults need to do better.”

This article originally appeared earlier this year.