In the feud between loudmouth basketball dad LaVar Ball and loudmouth President Donald Trump, it’s anyone’s guess as to who will get that last word in.
Neither party demonstrates much in the way of restraint, and just when it seemed like things were settling down following Trump’s purported intervention in the matter, it looks like LaVar couldn’t help but take another shot.
Has Trump met his match when it comes to strong-headed pettiness? Perhaps.
But let’s back up.
While visiting China on a UCLA basketball trip in November, Ball’s son LiAngelo was arrested with two other teammates for shoplifting. Trump claimed shortly thereafter that he was solely responsible for LiAngelo’s release.
LaVar Ball was quick to reply with a characteristic and dismissive “Who?” when told Trump took action.
That didn’t sit well with Trump, who did what he always does … tweeted.
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Three days went by as Ball’s ungrateful response festered, prompting Trump to tweet yet again on the matter.
Ball, somehow the voice of reason in this ridiculous back-and-forth, said to Chris Cuomo on CNN, "If you help, you shouldn't have to say anything. Let him do his political affairs and let me handle my son and let's just stay in our lane."
That’s … actually good advice. With those words the last spoken on the matter, it’s perhaps possible that Ball’s most recent move — the gifting of a pair of $495 Big Baller Brand shoes to Trump — is an earnest appeal, rather than further taunting. Of course, when Ball announced the shipment to Trump, he said it was so the president could “calm down a little bit.”
So here we are. Is there any chance that this feud will resolve itself in a civil matter? It’s Trump’s move now, so … probably not.
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.