Today, Saroo Brierley writes memoirs and delivers keynote presentations, promising that those who hear him speak “will be left inspired.” This confidence likely stems from his own profound journey of love, loss, and reunion. In 1986, at just 5 years old, a tragic accident separated him from his family in India. He didn’t reunite with them until he discovered Google Earth. After 25 long years, he finally found what he’d been searching for—home.

Image Source: uthor Saroo Brierley at Gotham Hall on May 4, 2017 in New York City. (Photo by J. Countess/Getty Images)
Image Source: Author Saroo Brierley at Gotham Hall on May 4, 2017 in New York City. (Photo by J. Countess/Getty Images)

“When I was five years old, I wandered onto an empty train somewhere in India and fell asleep waiting for my brother,” Saroo told Google in an interview, and continued, “When I woke up, I stepped off the train with no idea of how to get back.” He had stepped onto a freight train with his brother Guddu to steal coal and trade it for milk and food so that his family could have something to eat. Now lost, he jumped out of the train, and found himself hundreds of miles away from his home, amid the crowded streets of Kolkata, then Calcutta.

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Representative Image Source: Rickshaws pass as poor people queue for food in the early morning in Calcutta, India. (Photo by Tim Graham/Getty Images)

“The panic set in,” Saroo told People. To wake up and find himself hungry, moving towards the unknown, made tears roll down his cheeks, both tears of fear and tears of plight, “I was crying for my mom and my brother and my sister.”



Two years later, he was eventually placed in an orphanage where an Australian couple named Brierleys adopted him. “I described a map of my hometown to my Australian parents who eventually adopted me,” he told Google. His new parents, Sue and John Brierley were more than happy to receive him in their family.

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Image Source: Saroo Brierley and Sue Brierley attend the Build series to discuss

“Saroo’s arrival was a kind of birth into our family,” Sue told People, “It was just a fantastic moment, filled with love and joy.” They gave him some chocolates, a book, and a stuffed koala toy, which Saroo named “Koala Dundee.” All was perfect, except that his past didn’t stop haunting him.



“But it wasn’t until 25 years later, that I heard about a tool that might help.” He was referring to Google Earth, a geo-mapping and tagging program that uses composite imagery to form a comprehensive, interactive map of the Earth.

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Representative Image Source: A visitor looks at a 3D rendering of planet Earth while using Google Earth at Google offices in Berlin, Germany. (Photo by Adam Berry/Getty Images)

“I began the search for the family I’d lost undeterred by the reality of what I was trying to do,” he said, adding that he needed to scour through a whopping country of more than a billion to find a family of four. Plus, he needed to scan nearly 41,000 miles of track and 10,000 stations, which was akin to looking for a needle in a haystack.


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“Starting with the first thing I knew I got off the train at Howrah station, Kolkata. I thought about how long I was on board and worked out my search radius,” he did some math work. He had to examine a vast area. From this area, he kept deducting tinier chunks of areas based on his memories of his hometown. Firstly, he crossed out Bangladesh as he didn’t speak Bangla. Then, he deduced that he wasn’t from a city because he remembered looking at the stars. He also ruled out the possibility of colder regions as he recollected living in warm climates during his childhood nights. “From there my only option was to follow the tracks that still remained,” he said.


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Night after night, he obsessively pored through the maps, each day from 5 pm to 2 am for 3 years, totaling 9,855 hours, until the night he found something – a symbol of hope. A station. A water tower. An overpass. And a ring road. “It was the station where I fell asleep 25 years earlier,” he exclaimed. From 6213 miles away, he began to follow the path of his first home. “It was a surreal moment,” he told People, “Inside, I was jumping with joy.”


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In February 2012, Saroo traveled to the central Indian city of Khandwa, with the support of his adoptive parents. As he wandered through the town, watching ragamuffins play with sticks, he soon came to a familiar place, where he could sense his childhood dusty smell, sounds of screeching brakes, people shouting, and the pitter-patter of feet. He had arrived in his hometown.


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On February 12, 2012, after years of searching, Saroo finally reunited with his family. He stood in his little house hugging his birth mother, Fatima, whose eyes were welling with tears, “It was the most pivotal moment of my life,” he recalled.



After the heart-wrenching reunion, he penned a book titled “A Long Way Home,” describing his long journey from parting to reunion. He also co-authored the screenplay of the movie “Lion,” starring Dev Patel as “Saroo.” “He’s so lovely,” Dev Patel was quoted as saying by People, “We met in Australia, and he is so generous. Saroo’s the epitome of just a fiercely driven young man. And he has an incredible memory, down to the eggs I ordered at that meal, the clothes I was wearing, everything. He remembers crystal-clear.”


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Other characters of the cast include Nicole Kidman, Priyanka Bose, Nawazuddin Siddiqui, David Wenham, Siddiqui, Tannishtha Chatterjee, and more stars from India. At the 70th BAFTA, the film won Best Adapted Screenplay and fetched Dev Patel the Best Supporting Actor award. 


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  • Licensed therapist says these 3 steps stop rude people from hijacking your mind
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    Licensed therapist Jeffrey Meltzer offers three steps for dealing with rude people. In his helpful TikTok post under the name therapytothepoint, he suggests helpful tactics that go far beyond setting simple boundaries.

    Rude people are almost impossible to avoid, and the instinct to snap back or make a passive-aggressive remark can be strong. Meltzer shares some practical mental health advice that can lead to a calmer resolution.

    It Begins With Emotional Regulation

    Some individuals might believe that other people are responsible for how they make us feel. Meltzer suggests that self-regulation is an important first step to dealing with disrespectful people. Despite instincts to retaliate or escalate the situation, staying calm is more effective.

    Meltzer proposes that reciprocating aggression will only embolden a rude person and even justify their poor behavior. Instead, calmness and controlling our emotions will disrupt the pattern. Meltzer explains, “You might feel angry, embarrassed, disrespected, but calmness is about your behavior, despite the internal chaos you may be having. At the end of the day, emotional regulation is your strength, and reactivity gives your power away.”

    A 2024 study in the National Library of Medicine found that people’s ability to reappraise a stressful event in a more balanced way was strongly linked to greater resilience and better recovery from stress. The strategy helps people stay calmer by changing how the brain interprets the event.

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    Passive Aggression Is NOT a Solution

    An easy response might be the simple eye roll, sarcasm, or a retaliatory personal dig. Meltzer points out that these are only ego attempts to win an unwinnable situation. “Instead, be straightforward. I’m open to talking about this, but not like that. It’s hard for me to connect when you speak to me that way.” Meltzer explains that these tactics bring clarity and remove the defensive guard of said rude individuals.

    A 2026 study in Psychology Today reported that passive-aggressive behaviors worsen relationship dynamics and fail to resolve disagreements. Criticism, ostracism (ignoring others), and sabotage all undermine cooperation and relational success.

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    Role play works

    Practice makes perfect has value in dealing with rude people. “You don’t magically become composed under pressure; you train for it.” Meltzer continues, “Practice with a friend. Practice with your therapist. Have them be rude. Respond calmly. Respond assertively. Respond clearly. Because in real life, you don’t rise to the moment, you fall to your level of preparation.”

    A 2024 study in the National Library of Medicine revealed that an individual’s level of assertiveness can be trained. The strategy of preparation reduced feelings of stress, anxiety, and depression.

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    Stay Calm, Be Assertive, and Practice

    The solutions offered by Meltzer seem to resonate. Several people reveal their own struggles when facing similar predicaments. These are some of their comments:

    “Practice with a therapist? Why didn’t I think of that”

    “You don’t rise to the moment you fall to the level of your preparation. I’m gonna memorize that.”

    “I’m waiting for you to write a book about all your amazing insights”

    “I can handle them but i internalize later n let it ruin my day”

    “The real skill is knowing when to ignore and when to address it. Not everything deserves your energy.”

    “Rudeness is a weak man’s imitation of strength. Just say that to them and if they continue, walk away with a smile.”

    Meltzer advises that the best way to handle rudeness begins with how we respond. Diffusing a situation helps maintain peace of mind. Remaining composed helps control our own reactions. In the end, rehearsing for success allows us to stay confident when difficult situations arise.

  • Love educator shares how awkward flirting can be turned into a romantic superpower
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    In a recent TED Talk, love coach Francesca Hogi shared how even your awkward flirting can be a superpower. Sometimes mistaken as off-putting, flirting actually offers a powerful gateway to real human connection.

    By reframing flirting as an act of curiosity, she explains how anyone can kickstart attraction and open the door to lasting love. In an impassioned presentation, Hogi demystifies flirting and explains why building attraction matters.

    Flirting can be a superpower

    Hogi explains that for 12 years she’s been helping people fall in love as both a matchmaker and a coach. “As a love professional, I can assure you that many dating problems can be solved with flirting,” Hogi says. “If you’re single, it helps you to connect and fall in love. If you’re partnered, it helps you to reignite or maintain the spark of chemistry that brought you together in the first place.”

    Many might have concerns about their ability to flirt. Will they be received well, or are they even doing it right? Hogi explains, “I’ve got good news for the introverts out there. You don’t have to be extroverted to be a magnet for connection. In fact, I believe that introverts have a secret advantage when it comes to flirting because your efforts at being more open feel more genuinely inspired by another person and therefore special.”

    She shares that flirting can give you confidence and courage. She also acknowledges that feeling awkward is normal. “Confidence with flirting comes from knowing yourself, your intentions, reading the room, discerning other people’s reactions, and adapting accordingly,” she says. “Sometimes it’s going to be awkward, sometimes it’s going to be embarrassing, and that’s okay.”

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    Healthy flirting

    “Flirting gives you more agency over human connection,” says Hogi.

    She then describes the two foundational principles of healthy flirting. The first is presence: being in the moment and avoiding distractions like a phone or the surrounding environment. The second is enthusiasm. Getting the right vibe while being enthusiastic goes a long way toward mastering the art of flirting. These principles have a strong effect on other people.

    Hogi explains that expressing positive intentions has a large impact on outcomes:

    “You have the ability to leave other people feeling good for having interacted with you…Even your unspoken appreciation for a shared moment of connection, no matter how brief, can often be felt. Lean into being the version of you who leaves other people with a smile on their face and notice how much more magnetic you become.”

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    Hogi inspires the crowd

    People seem quite taken with Hogi’s energy and charisma. Some of the comments expressed admiration for her vibe and flirtatious delivery on stage. Hogi was sharing her own version of flirting as a superpower:

    “Even this presentation feels like shes flirting…especially her laughs”

    “She is such a good public speaker, ten minutes of speech with no filler words whatsoever”

    “Flirting is a way making one feel seen and acknowledged.”

    “Where were you, Francesca, when I needed these words? Like, 40 years ago? Never too late, right?”

    “Had me clapping in the end! She’z good”

    “I feel better about my flirting abilities after watching this now.”

    “She’s good , reading her body language generally teaches me more about flirting than learning it itself”

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    The power behind a flirtatious connection

    Flirting can have a powerful effect on both the initiator and the person on the receiving end. It isn’t necessarily about romance or sex. It helps build and strengthen relationships in everyday life.

    A 2025 study on ResearchGate analyzed where and how people flirt. The results suggested that people who flirt can improve with practice. The best flirting involved humor, confidence, and social skills. A 2026 study on ScienceDirect found that flirting can be an effective way for people to express their personality and individual differences. While personality traits and sex were linked to how often and how skillfully people flirted, these influences had only modest effects on overall outcomes.

    Hogi suggests flirting requires nuance and a little bit of courage. Practice prepares you for any occasion. “Attentiveness, compliments, playfulness—there’s nothing complicated about these actions, yet they have the potential to spark and sustain connection over time,” she says. “That’s a true superpower we can all tap into.”

    Hogi and the research suggest flirting isn’t just a trivial social game. It’s a meaningful way to express personality, build connections, and boost self-confidence. Flirting isn’t shallow. It doesn’t need to involve manipulation or outcome-obsessed action. These small everyday acts of courage embolden human connection and reveal individual superpowers in all of us.

  • Retired U.S. Navy chief explains how to end discipline anxiety with wholesome ‘butler’ trick
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    During an interview on The Diary of a CEO podcast, retired U.S. Navy chief Chase Hughes explained how to end discipline anxiety. Using a simple perspective shift, often referred to as the “butler” trick, he describes a method of “prioritizing the needs of our future self.”

    Hughes shares that understanding discipline is one of the fastest ways to change everything in our lives. We might wish discipline would arrive like a lightning bolt of motivation. However, Hughes suggests the solution lies in our relationship with discipline and the perspective we take on it, which ultimately relieves our anxiety.

    End discipline anxiety

    Hughes begins by explaining the importance of understanding what discipline actually is: “I define discipline as your ability to prioritize the needs of your future self ahead of your present self.” He goes on to explain that a simple reframing can change the link between discipline and anxiety.

    “If I can start looking backwards with gratitude, [it] is the fastest way to make discipline dopamine-generating,” Hughes says. “I want past-tense me to be a source of dopamine for present-tense me. Cause most of us look back with regret. ‘I shouldn’t have drank that much. I shouldn’t have mouthed off at the family reunion. You know whatever it is, I shouldn’t have overslept.’”

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    The butler trick for discipline

    Instead, it’s possible to prioritize long-term endeavors over short-term desires. In the full YouTube video of the interview, Hughes describes the butler trick as a way of treating your future self as someone you can serve today, just like a butler. The concept of looking forward with concerned awareness and backward with gratitude can help release the connection between anxiety and discipline. This reframing and release of negativity help people better motivate themselves and manage their present circumstances.

    A 2025 study in SAGE Journals found that future self-orientation directly impacts discipline-related outcomes. This trick can lead to meaningful behavior change. By reframing our relationship with the past, we directly affect our relationship with discipline and procrastination. A 2023 study published by Springer Nature found that procrastination and self-control significantly influence attitudes toward time. How someone relates to time ultimately shapes whether discipline feels easy or overwhelming.

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    Thoughts on the butler trick

    Viewers seemed universally impressed by the solution Hughes offers in the butler trick for discipline. Here are some of their thoughts:

    “I love it when Past Me has done something great to support Future Me. Sometimes it’s all I got, but it’s enough.”

    “This is the best advice on discipline I’ve ever heard in my life”

    “He’s giving you the blueprint for ultimate self care”

    “Be methodically organized and make your life less complicated and more suitable to your needs.”

    “I’ve heard everything can be looked at as a learning opportunity. Selfless gratitude + learning seems like a strong combo.”

    “Be my own butler. Love this!”

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    Discipline changes everything

    Hughes underscores the value discipline has in changing our lives:

    “Discipline is kind of the gateway drug to everything else in authority, and it’s the gateway to composure. But getting your discipline modified is one of the fastest ways to make everything else change.”

    Discipline can mistakenly be associated with punishment and rigid routine management. With Hughes’ framing, it might be better described as stewardship. Instead of battling the present, you can serve the future. The butler trick can help us all be more thoughtful toward the person we are becoming.

    You can watch the full interview with Chase Hughes on The Diary of a CEO podcast below:

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