After Donald Trump won the Republican Party's 2016 primary and became its presidential candidate, many pundits said that he'll soon make the pivot and begin to act more presidential.
"My wife is constantly saying, 'Darling, be more presidential.' I just don't know that I want to do it quite yet," Trump said at the time. "And I'll be — at some point, I'm going to be so presidential that you people will be so bored."
It never happened.
In the weeks after his inauguration, people once again claimed that Trump will begin to act more dignified, as the leader of the free world should.
But it never happened.
We've stopped pretending that one day the president will be thoughtful and act with poise, and have learned to accept the fact that Trump is going to be Trump, even in situations that require him to be so much more.
Late-night host Jimmy Kimmel perfectly showed just how unpresidential Trump behaves on Monday night.
He aired a mashup of the president's recent speech announcing the killing of ISIS leader Abu Bakr al-Baghdadi with Barack Obama's 2011 address announcing the death of al Qaeda leader Osama bin Laden.
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The difference between the two men's approach to a serious national security issue reveals a lot about who they are as men. Obama gives the killing of a terrorist the gravity it deserves while Trump has all the dignity of a reality TV star hosting the opening of a supermarket.
"The United States launched a targeted operation against that compound," Obama said, referring to the military raid on the al Qaeda leader's compound.
"They did a lot of shooting, and they did a lot of blasting, even not going through the front door," Trump says, referring to the al-Baghdadi killing. "You know, you would think you go through the door. If you're a normal person, you say, 'Knock, knock. May I come in?'"
"After a fire fight, they killed Osama bin Laden and took custody of his body," Obama says.
"He died like a dog," Trump says, sounding more like the despots the U.S. is fighting than the commander-in-chief.
"His death does not mark the end of our effort," Obama continues.
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"A beautiful dog, a talented dog," Trump says in the next line, referring to a dog that was injured in the operation in Syria.
"We give thanks to the men who carried out this operation," Obama said.
"And I don't get any credit for this, but that's OK. I never do. But here we are," Trump continued.
Obama then says, "May God bless you, and may God bless the United States of America," which is followed by Trump plugging an upcoming book, "And I'm writing a book. I think I wrote 12 books. All did very well."
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.