The frenzied first few days of 2018 NFL free agency are winding down, with the bulk of high-profile players inking multimillion-dollar contracts. One player, though, has been waiting patiently by the phone: Eric Reid, a safety with the San Francisco 49ers who has been a leading voice in player protests the last two seasons.
The safety market is a bit jammed right now, what with Tyrann Mathieu, Kenny Vaccaro, and others still available and the Seattle Seahawks fielding possible trade offers for Earl Thomas. So there’s a non-zero chance that Reid will find a suitor once a few superior talents fall off the board. There’s no denying Reid’s abilities on the field.
The former first-round draft pick is only 26 years old, and in 13 games last year, he showed his versatility, shifting from free safety to strong safety and even logging some time at starting linebacker after Navorro Bowman was released in October. With two interceptions and 67 tackles recorded in 2017, he’s amassed 10 and 327 respectively in his career, been named to an all-rookie team, and earned a trip to the Pro Bowl in 2013.
Even though he suffered a mild knee injury, by the end of the year, 49ers head coach Kyle Shanahan described him as “great” and said he was “playing his best football.”
And yet, nothing. No offers. No rumors of offers, even, at a time when agents and various hangers-on are bombarding NFL reporters with all manner of gossip about what player might catch the gleam of some general manager’s eye.
For his part, Reid isn’t holding back as to why he remains unsigned: He says it’s because he participated in on-field protests about state-sanctioned violence and the inequitable treatment of blacks by law enforcement.
“The notion that I can be a great signing for your team for cheap, not because of my skill set but because I’ve protested systemic oppression, is ludicrous,” Reid tweeted March 15, 2018. “If you think is, then your mindset is part of the problem too.”
The blame, according to Reid, shouldn’t be placed on NFL GMs. Instead, it’s NFL owners who have made it clear that they want nothing to do with him. “People who know football know who can play. People who know me, know my character,” he wrote.
Reid was one of the first NFL players to take a knee at the start of the 2016 season. He continued last year, spearheading a coalition comprised of current and former players which demanded funds from league to address social justice issues. Reid left the coalition in November, alleging that the NFL was attempting to neuter the group’s impact and message and buy off the protesters. (There are numerous prior examples of the NFL using its ample financial resources in an attempt to win the PR war and put an end to a spate of negative press.)
As Reid told Slate at the time, “[NFL Commissioner] Roger Goodell is trying to make this as easy for the owners to agree to as possible so that — again, their goal is to end the protests.”
In an interview with the New Orleans Times-Picayune, he went further, describing the relatively meager sum the NFL will be contributing as “reactionary.”
“I think it's great they want to help our communities. It's going to take more than $3 million, which is what [the NFL] gave the Coalition for systemic oppression,” he said. “It's a long fight.”
This is not to say that Reid is definitely being blackballed, as is the case for his former teammate Colin Kaepernick. An ongoing lawsuit filed by Kaepernick may unearth some proof of a concerted effort by the NFL to exile him, but in the interim, two teams have already said the quiet part out loud when it comes to players who have protested.
Earlier in March 2018, Miami Dolphins owner Stephen Ross told the New York Daily News that he’d somehow force his team to stand during the anthem then quickly tried to walk it back. Sources told the Houston Chronicle that no one who kneeled would ever suit up for the Houston Texans, though the team denied that the line existed.
But Reid has already accepted the possibility that he may be similarly and unjustly sidelined. “It's a possibility,” Reid said at the end of the season. “There are probably teams that won't want to talk to me because of it. I'm hopeful that I will be on a team next year, but if not, again, that's okay with me.”
The suspicion that football’s powers that be view his activism as an unnecessary distraction has been on Reid’s mind since August.
“If I’m not on a team next year, I’ll be at home unhappy that I’m not on a team,” he said. “But I’ll be satisfied that I did what I believed was right. And that’s being a voice for the voiceless and standing up for the oppressed.”
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This response to someone grieving a friend might be the best internet comment ever
When someone is hit with the sudden loss of a friend or loved one, words rarely feel like enough. Yet, more than a decade ago, a wise Redditor named GSnow shared thoughts so profound they still bring comfort to grieving hearts today.
Originally posted around 2011, the now-famous reply was rediscovered when Upvoted, an official Reddit publication, featured it again to remind everyone of its enduring truth. It began as a simple plea for help: “My friend just died. I don't know what to do.”
What followed was a piece of writing that many consider one of the internet’s best comments of all time. It remains shared across social media, grief forums, and personal messages to this day because its honesty and metaphor speak to the raw reality of loss and the slow, irregular path toward healing.
Below is GSnow’s full reply, unchanged, in all its gentle, wave-crashing beauty:
Why this advice still matters
Mental health professionals and grief counselors often describe bereavement in stages or phases, but GSnow’s “wave theory” gives an image more relatable for many. Rather than a linear process, grief surges and retreats—sometimes triggered by a song, a place, or a simple morning cup of coffee.
In recent years, this metaphor has found renewed relevance. Communities on Reddit, TikTok, and grief support groups frequently reshare it to help explain the unpredictable nature of mourning.
Many readers say this analogy helps them feel less alone, giving them permission to ride each wave of grief rather than fight it.
Finding comfort in shared wisdom
Since this comment first surfaced, countless people have posted their own stories underneath it, thanking GSnow and passing the words to others facing fresh heartbreak. It’s proof that sometimes, the internet can feel like a global support group—strangers linked by shared loss and hope.
For those searching for more support today, organizations like The Dougy Center, GriefShare, and local bereavement groups offer compassionate resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with intense grief, please reach out to mental health professionals who can help navigate these deep waters.
When grief comes crashing like the ocean, remember these words—and hang on. There is life between the waves.
This article originally appeared four years ago.